July 7th, 2009 LONDON - Late King of Pop Michael Jackson's daughter Paris believes that her father has "gone to live with the angels", the singer's pal has revealed. Two days after Jackson died, Mark Lester spoke to the 11-year-old. ...Debbie Rowe, the ex-wife of Michael Jackson and mother of his son Prince Michael and daughter Paris, is now attempting to gain custody of the kids. Declaring, "I want my children" in a phone interview, Rowe also announced plans to seek ...July 10th, 2009 LONDON - Michael Jackson's daughter Paris is rumoured to have an interest of hitting studio and recording a tribute track for her late father. The 11-year-old girl has reportedly come up with the idea after being ...All I've heard is how those Jackson kids were tutored. (Wait. My mind just crawled into the gutter. Was Kathy a "tutor" for those boys? Nevermind.) AND, of course Paris claims that Michael named his daughter Paris AFTER HER. ...July 8th, 2009 LONDON - Late King of Pop Michael Jackson's daughter Paris, made her first public statement as she paid tribute to the superstar by calling him "the best father I could imagine" at his memorial service in Los Angeles. ...Michael Jackson's daughter Paris spoke to finish the memorial service for her father. Standing on stage and choking back tears, Paris said that since the day she was born, her dad was great.Paris blames 'This Is It' chiefs for dad MJ's death London, Oct 1 (ANI): Michael Jackson's daughter Paris believes that her father buckled under the strain of preparing for his huge 50-show 'This Is It' tour, it has emerged. ...The testimony of Paris Jackson, the daughter of 11 years of the "King of Pop" in the posthumous tribute to his father in Los Angeles became the most popular video portal YouTube moment, where the farewell to Michael Jackson now occupies ...Michael Jackson's daughter Paris is so devastated about her father's death she has been writing him letters every day since he died.The Daily Mail reports that Samantha sold the first pictures her daughter Sophia to the highest bidder. Samantha's agent confirms that Hello! Magazine [...] MJs Kids In A Car Accident Yesterday! Thursday, 22nd October '09 17:00 ... A&E purchased the reality show The Jacksons: A Family Dynasty which will feature appearances by the late Michael Jackson's three kids, Prince, Paris, and Blanket. Thankfully, at least one Jackson thinks this is a bad idea. ...
My friend has Paris Jackson Michael Jackson's daughter on facebook, and I want to know if that could be a fake Paris Jackson and how can you tell if it's real or a fake person pretending to be Paris? Are people allowed to do that just as though they don't hurt anyone or try and make money from that name or using that person's name?
I mean that picture of her during the funeral at Staples, her looking up at her own image on the monitors smiling (and ya'll know she was lookin at herself), I don't like her already ugh
Ok well for rnglish we have to write a diary of a Celeb so i choose Janet Jackson and this is what i have written :
Dear Diary,
I can't believe it's been about 4 months since Michael died. The papers were around here again today, asking about him. What can't they just let us grieve in Peace? I'm so sick of it! I mean, When he was alive everything he did was analyzed by the media and rumors spread like wild fire. He was given the name "Wako Jacko" because of they way he looked and the things he did. He was accused of having far more surgery than what he had. He was laughed at, etc. They never said the good things, like about him being good a father , or about all the charity donations he gave.After his death there were still rumors about him having other children, and that his daughter Paris isn't his. But there was also a lot of people who had good things to say, people who actually noticed the good person he was, the good he did, and they joy he brought to so many lives.
But its waaaay too short and i think its cr*p !!
Can anybody give me any tips or sentences .. PLEAASE !! :(
I'm not pregnant, I'm not having a baby, I'm just doing this for fun. Which baby girl name do you like best--:
Gemma Christine
Paris Katherine
Layla Rosalie
(And yes, it is by coincidence that Paris Katherine is the name of Michael Jackson's daughter lol. I like the name, it's pretty. In my opinion at least).
If you don't like ANY of them, you don't have to answer this. Or, you could just pick the least of the 3 evils. Don't care. Just pick something. :) I like them all. <3 xxxxx
I think the part where his daughter, Paris, spoke touched me the most. The most heart-breaking thing I've ever witnessed. What about you?
"Zach8131" Quit being so ignorant. That little comment of yours was not needed. If you're going to be saying negative things keep it to yourself and grow up.
"Zach8131" Quit being so ignorant. That little comment of yours was not needed. If you're going to be saying negative things keep it to yourself and grow up. Yes, I agree with each and every single one of you. When Usher sang gone too soon and choked with tears... that hurt me a lot.
I think Michael Jackson's got a really hot and beautiful daughter. I am actually 12 years old. I live in parts around LA and I think of asking her out on a date later on. It was love at first sight with Paris Jackson! I need enough charm to make her kiss me! Or harder! I don't know what to do, though. I don't know how I should win her over. You guys, please heip!!
just wondering cuz people keep saying that shes not
anyways ily michaeljackson<3
please dont judge me and give me crap for this...im 16 years old and michael jackson's daughter has caught my eye and im mesmerized by her beauty...dont get it wrong, theres no sexual feelings towards her from me but i honestly think shes a very cute girl and want to meet her in the future badly...what can i do? im willing to just become friends with her if i meet her but then i want to start something once SHE GETS OLDER!!!! keep that in mind people and dont give me a negative response
I saw on Entertainment Tonight and it showed a picture of Paris, Michael Jackson's daughter, and another girl. And this guy said he things he is Paris's biological father. And he showed the pictures of Paris and his daughter side by side and I thought they looked alike. What do you think?
Ok i want to believe/ i know that Michael Jackson is Paris's biological father.
but yesterday on ET they said this dude named MARK LESTER is saying that he might be her father. although i do see similarities between his daughter Harriet, 15 and Paris, 12 i dont believe he is the father cuz he said he's only PARIS'S biological father and not PRINCE's. and paris and prince are definalty brother and sister. they look alike.
so what do ya think. IS MARK LESTER HER DAD??
i still think MJ is her biological dad, but paris looks really similar to Lesters daughter harriet so i dont know.
I was no fan of Michael Jackson but I think his children should be afforded some dignity and a bit of peace to come to terms with their loss. That Mark Lester thing yesterday was farcical and as a self proclaimed good friend of MJ he is quick to cash in on the whole debacle.
Yesterday we were treated to footage of Mark Lesters Daughter (the one that supposedly looks like Paris Jackson) popping out to the Londis for the Sunday papers. Mark Lester and daughter enjoying a stroll and today numerous interviews on various programmes with many more to follow.
I live in Cheltenham and this evening I saw him walking up the high street and I thought 'that man is nuts". I thought it was all for the money but now i think he is deranged. I a know there is a posibility that he may be The Daddy but what a way to put it to the family.
Has the man no shame.
NB: He did sort out my Husbands back problem and did a fine job too, when I asked my Husband what he was like he replied 'He is a bit of a W*nker. How right he was!!
i think she will grow up to be beautiful. She is a pretty little girl.
I'm not a pedo btw.
a.janet
b.paris
c.jackie
d.ashlee
i thought i heard something about that on TV..
Last week Paris Hilton told the newspaper that Michael Jackson and her mother were best friends since they were 13 and Michael Jackson named his daughter, Paris, after her. Does anyone actually believe her? Is it true? Isn't it ironic that she told the world AFTER he'd died? How come this wasn't important when he was alive?
Michael Jackson named her only daughter Paris Michael. But I think Michael suits only a male not a female. For this reason, I think it was better if he used Michelle or Michaela instead of Michael because are the feminine forms of Michael.
Or MIKKIE ( I see it as a unisex name )
MICHELLE is a gorgeous name & classic
I don't criticize him. It's just my opinion !
and also name then after Michael Jackson's kids. Michael jr, Paris, and Blanket. I love the name Paris! So I want to name my daughter
Paris, Maid (not telling last name!)
My other 2 son's...
Michael, Joseph ( not telling last name)
and my other son
Blanket, Jackson ( not telling last name )
Or I can name him Prince, Jackson and give him the nick name Blanket.
What do you think about them names?
By Paris Katherine Michael Jackson, I mean Michael Jackson's 11-year-old daughter.
this may sound strange and dumb but i think im like falling in love with Paris Jackson- the daughter of Michael Jackson....ever since i laid eyes on her i felt like i was staring into my future wife. (not to sound dumb) ive never been crushing on a 12 year old since now...its odd but it is what it is...im a 15 year old kid...the strange thing is that i hered shes visiting my hometown of new york next week....dont mean to sound dumb but is it destiny?
this may sound strange and dumb but i think im like falling in love with Paris Jackson- the daughter of Michael Jackson....ever since i laid eyes on her i felt like i was staring into my future wife. (not to sound dumb) ive never been crushing on a 12 year old since now...its odd but it is what it is...im a 15 year old kid...the strange thing is that i hered shes visiting my hometown of new york next week....dont mean to sound dumb but is it destiny?
this may sound strange and dumb but i think im like falling in love with Paris Jackson- the daughter of Michael Jackson....ever since i laid eyes on her i felt like i was staring into my future wife. (not to sound dumb) ive never been crushing on a 12 year old since now...its odd but it is what it is...im a 15 year old kid..your thoughts on this plese
The "King of Pop" Michael Jackson dies at 50
Los Angeles (USA), June 25 (EFE) .- The legendary Michael Jackson, the proclaimed "King of Pop," died at age 50 in Los Angeles after he was found in his mansion in Bel Air in a coma after suffering an apparent heart attack
A medical team that traveled to his home found the artist without a breath and perform resuscitation after cardiac arrest, was admitted to the Hospital of the University of California, where he was pronounced dead.
Before even knowing the news of his death, a crowd of supporters turned themselves to the gates of the hospital to receive information about their health status.
Made public after the news of his death, fans began to focus also on other parts of the country, as in the Square or Times Square in the Apollo Theater in New York, to mourn the death of an icon of music.
For the moment, and a lack of official information from the Los Angeles hospital, the circumstances of the sudden death of singer, who had served 51 years in August, remain hidden.
Police in Los Angeles opened an inquiry into the case, although no evidence of a criminal offense, according to the media said a spokesman for the department.
In statements to the press, the artist's spokesman, Brian Oxman, said his concern about the abuse of drugs that were committed by the singer.
According to Jackson, who was preparing for a series of concerts in London, was being medicated for several injuries including a broken leg and a vertebra.
Jackson had a poor health for much of his life in many episodes that required medical care, four of them when the trial was being held in 2005 in which he was accused of sexually abusing a minor.
After a long trial, the judges finally acquitted the singer, said in an interview that he had slept in a bed with many children. "
This series of 50 concerts in London, where tickets were sold out, he was preparing his return to music after years of financial scandals and news about his eccentricities.
According to the press, these actions would allow the artist to reorganize their battered finances, because that drew an estimated debt of about $ 400 million.
In recent years it had been reported by his erratic behavior, was found dressed as a woman on several occasions and also in relation to their children, who also appeared before the press wearing a mask, as used to the singer.
Michael Jackson was married twice: first with Lisa Marie Presley, daughter of Elvis Presley, and the second to the nurse Deborah Rowe, the mother of two of her children, Prince Michael and Paris.
The singer had a third child, Prince "Blanket" Michael Jackson II, the result of an unknown mother.
Admitted only two surgeries to put a nose and a dimple in his chin, he explained in his autobiography "Moonwalk" (1988), while the white color of her skin that she had responded to vitiligo, a disease that causes depigmentation, as explained.
However, these and other eccentricities did not conceal their artistic and musical talent.
He was a child prodigy made her debut in a stage-to-4 years and was famous worldwide with only 12 as soloist with the Jackson Five, a group he formed with his brothers.
This was the first of his 13 Grammy Awards with only 20 years ( "Do not stop 'til you get enough", 1979) but the glory will come with "Thriller" (1982), the best-selling album ever, with 100 million copies, and his legendary video with zombies, who revolutionized pop music.
I was shocked (as probably were others) when I found out he died. I watched my mom (he was one of her favorite singers growing up) cry and eventually I did too when I learned the real story about him. But now people are saying he's alive. There's many different websites of people having pictures or stories to share that he's alive. As much as I (and others im sure) would like to believe this... I just don't know what to think. Alot of things were brought up to me that made sense of why he would fake his death. They say his family knows and four days after Michael died.. his father (i heard this from my mother who saw it but no I did not see it myself) preformed something to an audience and then said Michael's daughter Paris was already showing signs of a "promising little actress." There's many different factors in the death of him like why did his doctor leave the hospital? People have been saying they saw him in the laundry room with people surronding him towards the back exit. His life insurance hasn't been cashed in yet and someone already put his estate up for sale when no one has the rights yet (yet again information from my mother) so how is things of his going up for sale if no one has the rights to it?
I would like to believe he is alive and somewhere that he can live the rest of his life in peace and away from the unjusted judgment people give him (and yes its unjust because we're not God there for we have no rights to judge anyone) But if not I'm glad he has the peace he deserved all of his life... what do you guys think?
My heart goes out to his family and children.
Reasons why i think hes dead
- his daughter paris she was crying and really hurt & he loved his kids more than anything he wouldt do that too her.
- why would he come back in thriller if people think hes dead no body will be there?
- he loved his fans & would never wanna hurt them.
- his family said he was dead themselfs why would they lie thats just sick?
- i understand he was in debt but 50 concerts plz he would of gotten the money.
- it wouldt work anyway he would go to jail you can't fake your death.
SOme reasons why he might be alive:
- they wont show his body dead.
- he was said to not be burried yet .. ?
- he was '' seen 37 times in brazil from what i herd ''
- he sold alot of his stuff before he died.?
- he out of no were dies. really werid.
- i herd in his last concert he said '' this is it '' and same thinq rite before he died.
- some people say theres a double of it him lmao i DOUBT iiT.
- the 911 call have you read it is werid and when they get him there driving slow why?
- they said his body was cold your body doest get that cold that easily.
- and did any doctors say hes died? just the media.
THERES ALOT OF OTHER FACTS BUT I CANT TOO MUCH I WROTE ENOUGH. IM JUST WONDERING CAUSE THIS IS ANNOYING AND CREEPY SO I WANNA KNOW WHAT YOU GUYS THINK & WHY? IF YOUR GONNA BE RUDE SERIOUSLY DONT BOTHER I DONT NEED IT.
um have u seen the paris video that was tears? sure looked like it too me and he would be in jail i think hes dead and everyone is js going wackooo
He gave whatever his child needs - He shut up stores just for them to shop. He hide the identity of his child for his child protection.
During his memorial, Paris -her daughter proudly tell the world that she loves her Daddy!
He was really a good father!
I was reading this article off of Yahoo:
Meanwhile, Joe Jackson told ABC that he and his wife, Katherine, should have custody of Michael's three children. "They'll grow up to be strong Jacksons," he said.
He said Michael's daughter, Paris, who spoke at the Tuesday memorial service, was taking the death hard and was crying whenever Michael's name is mentioned. He said that she might have a future in the entertainment business along with the youngest son, nicknamed Blanket, who "can really dance."
It really makes me sick to think that Michael didn't like Joe as it was. They clearly have two kinds of disciplining styles. Michael was patient and firm but soft-spoken with his kids, he never raised his voice at them. They turned out to be sweet kids. But they will be jacked up kids after Joe Jackson gets a hold of them, and make them want to kill theirselves too. He is such a control freak. How does he know that Paris and Blanket want to be in the entertainment business? Michael didn't push them to do what he does, and I"m sure that he prefers for them to have a normal childhood, but it doesn't sound like those are Joe's plans. He see's dollar signs in the kids. I hope Katherine has enough balls to put her foot down on him and tell him to STFU!!! Doesn't this make you sick too? Only MJ fans respond, if you are a hater, keep it movin.
I feel that Debbie Rowe would be a horrible parent, she had the kids strictly for Mike because Lisa Marie thought that Mike was too immature to be a good father. Debbie never bonded with those kids and had no desire too. She also appears to be short-tempered which is obviously the reason that Mike didn't put her down as a guardian in the will. Janet should keep those kids, but I heard Janet had a secret child that she gave up to another family member to raise. Don't know if it is true. Those kids are doomed. Diana Ross has a lot of kids already so she said she would be there if they need her, but she didn't want to get in the middle of it.
if any one know Paris katherines email please tell me. thank you
Jordan Chandler
Age:27
Personal Life:Married to Elizabeth Chandler, Has a seven year old daughter named Katelyn,Currently living in Beverly Hills Cali.,Millionaire off his own wealth.
Best Know for:accusing Michael Jackson of Molestation,and suing his own father.
Michael Jackson
Born:1958
Died:2009
age:50
Personal Life:Has three kids Paris,Prince,Blanket,accused of molestation of two boys,had vitiligo and bleached his skin,was addicted to pain killers which eventually killed him.
Best know for:King of Pop
who is better in your eyes?
I wish I was jordan shoot I would be rich right now! that lucky son of a gun
Okay she is pretty, but I mean there are tons of older men in their 30s on youtube and stuff saying she is so pretty and that they would marry her etc.. I think that is sick its okay to think she is pretty has a child but to say she is hot and sexy thats just plain wrong, and about Prince Michael too, don't you people understand that these are children they are not even legal yet. so what is up with this I would kiss them all over and calling them sexy and hot etc...?
am I the only one who thinks this is seriosuly messed up calling a child sexy and stuff?
I have been a major fan of MJ for more than 30 years. I have watched him grow from a shy, gifted little boy in Indiana, to a shy, gifted young man on the world stage. There has always been plenty of speculation about MJ, and the memorial given for him yesterday was without a doubt the greatest gift and remembrance MJ could have ever received and it was so well deserved.
He was many things to many people, young and old, and I never thought for a second that he was in any way a child molester. There was no doubt in my mind and for the simple fact, that if you truly love something from your heart, you can't and won't bring any harm to it, period. Children did not judge this man as adults did. They acccepted him as he was, and although I did not agree with the way he surrounded himself with children as an adult, I in no way ever believed that he would harm them. They were his comfort zone.
When his precious daughter Paris spoke about yesterday, that sealed the deal for me. I did not see the Michael the entertainer, I saw Michael the Dad!
MJ gave the world more than music, he gave us his soul. So many people have said that all he could do was sing and dance, and all I can do is laugh! If they only knew.
Everyone was so quick to judge him, but did you know him?? Yes, you read about him, gossiped about him, but did you know him? The media is so good at that and he knew it, but he brought his A game every time. He shared his love of music and passion for peace with the world.
I know now that MJ is smiling down at everyone, because he indeed got the last laugh. Finally, MJ, you can rest in peace! Say what you will about him, but yesterday at his memorial service, said it all! Bravo to Queen Latifah, Mariah Carey, Usher, Stevie Wonder, Jennifer Hudson, John Mayer, and everyone else who gave him a great send off!
The King of Pop forever and always!
What are your thoughts about MJ?? All negative posts, keep it to yourself, its not welcome here!
why is everyone think that his body isn't in casket yesterday at the staple center? they told before the memorial start that his body is actually in there but all the fans don't believe it. they hold his body till last monday morning from the autopsy a little long. So they will buried him somewhere in California. I heard that he will be buried with his other family members so not sure. I can't believe he still have his kids, brothers, sisters, aunts and uncle, and his parent and it really sad. I hope his kid will be okay and can't believe what his daughter paris say about him and it make have tears.
How many years in your country before Michael Jackson's daughter Paris is legal?
I do not think that she is his real daughter, they look nothing alike.
Michael Jackson's daughter spoke at his farewell ceremony today. Paris made a speech. Short, but to the point. Anyone who saw her speech live or on Yahoo! or on youtube, i can garantee you cried. I know i did.
I found her mini-speech touching. "I... I just wanted to say... Ever since I was born... Daddy has been the best father you could ever imagine... And I just wanted to say I love him..."
Just think... She wasnt crying becasue a legend died,
She was crying because her father died.
All those people who went to the service to honor Michael Jackson loved him as a Preformer.
Paris loved him as her dad.
Now I know what you're thinking. Why am I saying all this?
Because, just think. What yould you do if your daddy died?
As i am sitting here crying while writing this, i know that I would give anything to keep my daddy around. I love him.
I know Paris didnt say anything about her mom, but I would do anything to keep my mom around too.
Even though our parents aggrivate us, we love them.
They create a shelter for us, pay for our things, and most importantly, love us.
Again, as I am sitting here writing this, I am crying. The point is, we dont realize how much we love something until it is gone.
We have to love our family, friends, and people we love while they are still here in reality, not in spirit.
So I ask you, do u aggree with me?
Because I know once you have read this that you would do ANYTHING to keep your parents around. Dont hurt them, that makes their lives shorter.
If you aggree with my whole point in this question, please star. Star this question in the name of love.
a�?Emily. (dedicated to Michael Jackson, Paris Jackson, my mother, and my dad.)
I love you poochie-man and mom. And i always will.
i cried when his daughter paris gave her speech
for; nice boy
if it was not for him black people would not be on mtv so no he is not just a singer i bet if it was maddona or U2 u would not have said what you said
I did, during Jermaine's song, Brooke Shields, and when is daughter Paris spoke it was so sad.
Friday, October 30, 2009
kurt cobains daughter
MELBOURNE - Frances Bean Cobain, the daughter of Kurt Cobain and Courtney Love, has lashed out at Lindsay Lohan's younger sis Ali Lohan in a Twitter post.October 9th, 2009 MELBOURNE - Frances Bean Cobain, the daughter of Kurt Cobain and Courtney Love, has lashed out at Lindsay Lohan's younger sis Ali Lohan in a Twitter post. Although, Cobain has whipped Ali severely, the cause of her ...Melbourne, Oct 9 (ANI): Frances Bean Cobain, the daughter of Kurt Cobain and Courtney Love, has lashed out at Lindsay Lohan's younger sis Ali Lo.October 3rd, 2009 LONDON - Courtney Love, widow of rocker Kurt Cobain, claims she is completely broke and is down to her last 75 pounds. The 45-year-old says she cannot even afford to feed her 17-year-old daughter Francis Bean. ...The daughter of rockers Kurt Cobain and Courtney Love, is out and all grown up! Frances Bean Cobain is now 17 years old! Frances was seen shopping in the East.WASHINGTON - Late singer Kurt Cobain and Courtney Love's teenage daughter, Frances Bean, refused to star in Tim Burton's new film adaptation of 'Alice In Wonderland', sources say.You spent 858000 dollars on this record of My Daughters (sic) Money.a�?), so it's particularly interesting that Kurt Cobain's daughter has strong (though spell-check-impaired) opinions on the issue of celebrity entitlement. ...The imaginary friend of Kurt Cobain, lead singer and guitarist for Nirvana. When Kurt was a kid, he was the prime suspect for the torture of his neighbor's cat, but when asked about it he said that Boddah did it. Also, Kurt Cobain never ...This is Frances Bean Cobain. She is the daughter of rockers Courtney Love and the late Curt Cobain. Read more about her below, see photos, and watch a video. Frances Bean Cobain 2. Frances Bean Cobain. With her famous mom, Courtney Love ...franceslohan Teen Drama: Cobains Daughter Picks on Lohans Sister. Recently Frances Bean Cobain (the progeny of Kurt Cobain and Courtney Love) took to her Twerbose account to post a lengthy diatribe against Ali Lohan. ...
does courtney love have the custody of her and Kurt's Cobains daughter?
i never hear any thing about them...and i live in seattle, where kurt lived and dided.
says he should still be around
for his daughter.
And for music.
And what would it be like if he was alive?
she should keep it all and give it to their daughter even if she is low on money
what hapenned to Kurt Cobains daughter Francis Bean Cobain???????
im a huge nirvana fan and i recently found kurt cobains daughter Frances Bean on MySpace.. her profile was under private but she accepted my friend request. and her pics look legit but idk
her url is www.myspace.com/ beaniechica92
if you want to take a look and get back at me that would be great
but there are so many fake celebrity profiles.... who really knows
if so would u please gimme me link
ten points if so
does courtney love have the custody of her and Kurt's Cobains daughter?
i never hear any thing about them...and i live in seattle, where kurt lived and dided.
says he should still be around
for his daughter.
And for music.
And what would it be like if he was alive?
she should keep it all and give it to their daughter even if she is low on money
what hapenned to Kurt Cobains daughter Francis Bean Cobain???????
im a huge nirvana fan and i recently found kurt cobains daughter Frances Bean on MySpace.. her profile was under private but she accepted my friend request. and her pics look legit but idk
her url is www.myspace.com/ beaniechica92
if you want to take a look and get back at me that would be great
but there are so many fake celebrity profiles.... who really knows
if so would u please gimme me link
ten points if so
step daughter
A jury convicted an Antrim County man of kidnapping his own step daughter and raping her over the course of ...A Wichita woman charged with first-degree murder in the death of her 2 1/2-year-old stepdaughter pleaded guilty Tuesday to a reduced charge of voluntary manslaughter.A social worker who subjected his stepdaughter to years of sexual abuse has been struck off. The practitioner began abusing his partner's daughter in 1999, when she was nine or ten years old, and continued doing so for six years, ...Bruce Jenner has spoken out about step-daughter Khloe Kardashian's prenup and said she is "very smart" and she is doing the "right thing". Khloe, 25, married LA Lakers star Lamar Odom in a ceremony last month and it was claimed that the ...I know I said I wanted to see more fathers involved in their daughter's lives, but this is NOT what the fugg i meant. He is accused of terrorizing his own.A Winnipeg man is on trial accused of sexually abusing his young stepdaughter up to three times a week for six years, beginning when the girl was just three years old.Bruce Jenner speaks out about step-daughter Khloe Kardashian's prenup Bruce Jenner has spoken out about step-daughter Khloe Kardashian's prenup and said she is a�?very smarta�? and she is doing the a�?right thinga�?. ...He was preceded in death by his parents, George and Hermine; wife, Evelyn, in 1991; sisters, Mary Munson and Hermine (Mick) Campbell; brothers, Oscar and Joseph Weisz; stepson, James Morris and stepdaughter, Patricia Horton. ...Filed under: Shauna Sand Shauna Sand is under attack for giving the green light on her sex tape -- and the woman behind the Sand-bashing is her former step-daughter Shayne Lamas. Lamas -- Lorenzo's daughter -- is tearing Sand a new one, ...Today a man is held in a New York jail for striking his 17-year-old stepdaughter in the hand with a Samurai sword for being intimate with her boyfriend. It is also worth reporting that the stepfather went into her apartment, ...
Hi,
My father in law died due to sudden heart attack and without any will, he was working in Central Govt(defence) and got married twice. First wife passed away
15 years back and they have two girls with them, he got married again and have another girl with them. Overall the family members left are second wife, 3
daughters. Eldest daughter is married to me, second daughter is around 25 yrs of age and the youngest one around 15 years of age. I have few questions,
appreciate if you can answer and help us at this critical stage.
Since my mother in law is a step mom, my wife and her immediate sister relations are not cordial since beginging.
1) Can my wife(eldest daughter) and second sister claim their appropriate share from Government for the funds which will be passed on after my father in law
death. Basically PF, Gratuity, Arrears etc etc
2) If they can claim then what should be our next step ?
3) What would be the appropriate portion of shares divided among 4 of them?
4) We dont kn
Wanted to add mother is law is already working as Central Govt Emp(india) and earning more than 60k PM. We are more worried about second daughter since she is not yet married and also afraid step mother may not support her/or give funds for marriage etc. Youngest one is still safe since her mother is working and well settled.
Location - India
Religion - Hindu
Hopefully whoever is reading this has at least seen the movie "Coraline". It's based on a story where the little girl "Coraline" has lousy parents & finds a secret door which leads to the same, but nicer, funner mom & dad. That's the gyst of it. So, I thought it looked like a cute movie, it was rated PG & for children, we watched it together.
Now, whenever my 4 year old does something she's not supposed to, I usually give her time out or take away some of her priveliges when she acts up. After watching that movie, she insists I'm not her Mommy & wants her other Mommy. She yells "You're not my Mommy, I want my other Mommy, NOW!" It's been at least 2 months since we've watched the movie & she continuously says it. I try to explain to her that she has no other mommy, just me! Which she doesn't, I gave birth to her you know, I'm not her step mom or anything. It's the same thing when my husband puts her in time out, or her Nana, she yells I want my other Nana, or Daddy! Especially when she does it in public, I have people staring at me like I kidnapped her!! It's so frustrating I don't know what to do, please help! I'm tired of people looking at me like I'm a criminal & I'm tired of my daughter saying I'm not her Mother. I've tried everything.
P.S. If you have toddlers, I highly suggest you do not let them watch Coraline, it looks like a cute children's movie but it's not.
Father:
I never had a father. Sure, technically I did; but never once did I feel like he was. Maybe it was the divorce before I was even one years old. I still see him in hopes that I would gain that connection with him, but I knew no such thing would happen. My step-dad was closer with me than my biological dad was, but alas, father-daughter connection that I hoped I would have someday with them; something to savor until I grew old. Oh how I longed for that day. I dreamt of the day when I would be able to feel like my dad loved me, and that I could call him a�?dada�� and mean it. Oh how I yearned for that day
I make about 80K , my wife 25K & we have four kids. One of our kids is heading to College in 2010.
I have been told we make too much $ to qualify for grants & financial aid.
Will it help if my wife & I file separate taxes? The daughter going to College is my step daughter with a different last name.
Please help!
me and my boyfriend have been together over a year and we live togther with his two kids. his daughter is 9 years old and his son is 5. his son and i have grown VERY close. at first his daughter loved me and i began to do morethings with her that her own mother never really does, everything was great(we neve say ANYTHING bad about her mother because we dont want them to hate her) out of know where she started to tell me that she hates me and that i'm not her mom! i never tried to be her mom and i have told her that. that i am only here for when she needs me. also i am the first girl that she has ever seen with her father but her mother is one of those ladies that cant keep their legs shut and introduces every guy to them :-( but we pretend everything is okay. i do what i can for these kids. why the hostility towards me??
Here are some symptoms that I have. very dizzy, I dont have a thermometer but I feel like im burning up, legs feel achy, runny nose, back kinda achy, tired , small cough.. thats it.
DETAILS... I went to Kalahari (BIG INDOOR WATER PARK) from last Saturday to Sunday.. and i went with my dad step mom and her daughter..... Well this will probly give it away but my dad tested positive for swine flu yesterday. And i spent 2 hours with him in a car and I slept in the same bed with him (I had to no other beds =< )
PLEASE HELP
I split my 6 year old son with my ex-husband and I get my son every other week. Over the summer my ex married the women he cheated on me with 3 years ago. It's a given we do not like each other. Also, over the summer they moved in together and blended their families. She has two children and my ex has partial custody of our son and his daughter from his first marriage. My husband works in the evenings, so 5 of his 7 days with my son, his new wife cares for my son while he is at work. My son says that his step-mom spanks him hard and when my son gets mad that she is spanking him that she spanks him harder. He said, mom it hurts a lot when she spanks me! He also says, she locks in him in the bathroom when he is bad. Which my ex did tell me that, yes, they use the bathroom as my son's timeout place. I don't believe she should be physically touching my son and mad that my ex is not even caring for my son on his weeks. Just from the stuff my son tells me it is like she punishes my son because I am his mother. She always tells my son, that she is nice to me and I am just so mean to her and doesn't understand why? My son says, his dad and her fight all the time and she says how much she hates me, thinks I am stupid and calls me a f*cking b*tch all the time. I feel so bad for my son. I feel sad for my son and don't know if I should be upset and say something or keep my mouth shut? I hired a lawyer to get my son more but the process is taking forever. Since my ex received my lawyer's notice of representation letter, my son has been complaining more that his step-mom spanking and her sons are calling him stupid all the time. My son has told me a lot of awful things they have said about me and how I don't really want him and love him. I am just frustrated and don't know what to do anymore? I feel lost.
I should add my ex will not communicate with me at all. She makes sure he hates me as much as she does. His new wife even went to the extent of making a false email address (pretending that the alias email address was me) and corresponded with herself. She said things that I wanted my ex husband back, which I can assure you 110% I would never him want him back. These are the things she makes up in her head and convinces herself, nothing that is based in truth or fact. She even tried to file those emails with police as harassment and send them to my boyfriend in hopes she would cause trouble. She will do anything to make sure I never have any contact with my ex-husband, even if that contact ONLY concerns my son and nothing else.
No I am not making it out more than what the facts are. Yes, the had an affair but I care more about my son than holding onto that. I have seriously tried to make peace and asked them to move on from the past. I get met with mean comments from them. And yes the lawyer knows about the spanking but unless you have solid evidence to prove it, it is hard for them just to go off what my son reports to me. The legal process of custody issues is very slow. I thought when I hired my lawyer it would be a faster process and would be a lot easier. It is not as easy as you might think. You feel stuck in the meantime of waiting.
of course i try to tell my ex about what my son says. he doesn't want to hear it. he then calls me a lair. you have to understand, he needs her to watch his son so he can work and not to have to pay for daycre. he did it to me when we were married. he worked weird hours and I was always the one with the kids. i would love to tell him and her off or keep my son from them but then i don't want to legally set myself up where they can come back at me and try to take my son from me. it is a fine line you have to walk. i want to protect my son but i am trying to do it the right way and the legal way.
Wait, before you start saying you are going to report me. I have tried to tell my ex husband. I am met with only resentment and hate. I do care for my son greatly where I hired a lawyer and would do anything for him. I am going off what my son tells me when I am not around. I take everything my son says seriously and as the truth. that is why I took legal action and have a lawyer helping me. I would never let anything happen to my son and never turn the other way. I am just frustrated with how long the legal process is taking to get my son away from these people.
I guess at the time of my divorce I wanted to be civil and hope for the best. I never thought my ex would let this happen. I certainly wouldn't have agreed to joint custody. I would keep my son from him if I didn't know he was going to call the cops and show them our parenting plan which states we have joint custody. I have acted before hiring a lawyer in trying to get my son more and it only has lead to more threats from them. I have even flat out asked my ex if I can have my son on the days he works in the evening so my son can be with a parent. my ex only cares about having to pay child support if he did that. I have told him I would sign a legal document stating I would not seek anything financially from him. I just want my son, nothing else. you have to understand i am not dealing with rational people. trying to get custody of your child is not as easy. I thought going to a lawyer and hiring them was a simple solution. you need lots of money for it to be super easy & fast.
How many of you ladies were induced upon request? My step daughter is considering asking her doctor. Should she even bother trying? She's 39 weeks and she's been in early labor for a week. Her contractions are 5 to 9 minutes apart but the hospital keeps sending her home because they are irregular. She wants to know if she asks her doctor how likely do you think it is they'll induce her. She's miserable. Thanks in advance. And please no rude comments.
I just had a baby on Oct 6th. 3 weeks before I was to leave I gave my job (in writing!) That my last day would be Oct 5th and I would be returning after 3 weeks unless I had complications during delivery. Well I walk into my job today, and am told to call the staffer tomorrow and monday to get some patients because I no longer have a position in the office!! So I freak out I was hired for an in office position, not to be a field employee because of my daughter's school schedule and a new baby and I am in nursing school I can't be in the field so basically I have NO job!!! Can I get unemployment benefits until I can find a new job? Is there anyway to take this a step further than just unemployment?
I didn't do anything wrong and am very upset! Oh and I forgot to mention I have been here a year, i'm do for a raise, and this is a pretty large company.
Thanks in advance.
Thanks for your answers so far. The position I was hired for is completely different from the one they are trying to give me now. Also I am only able to work part time and they have known this since I started. The field position is as a visiting CNA and I have not been released from my OB to begin that type of work because this consists of transferring patients. I was originally taking 3 weeks of because I know I would be able to go back to my job at a desk which was okayed but my physician.
Here's my trouble, I have a 7 year old little girl that's my step daughter. She's my husbands from a previous relationship. Anyway, her mother thinks it okay to let a 7 year old decide that she wants to kill something. Now my and my husband DO NOT believe in hunting. We have grocery stores. Anyway this is a child that still get upset about a great grandmother she met twice that has died over three years ago. She's not mentally ready for to decide something that could break her. Not to mention behind our backs her mother let her watch her dress a deer. I don't know if all of you know what that entails, but it's not pretty in the LEAST. Yet she won't let her get her ears pierced. What do we do? We have trouble fighting her all the time on things. It's like she does things just because she knows it will piss us off. My husband is ill and not working so we have no income, and we haven't been able to pay child support, but our lawyer that got her back with us said that doesn't matter, we should have a say in her life. She's his daughter too. As soon as we get our disability she will get her money, but this is to much for a 7 year old girl. She loves animals. The trouble is, the more violence she see's the worse it could be. Her father is bipolar and has multiple personality disorder. Alot of it was because he saw alot of the same when he was smaller. Of Course there was alot more than just that.What do you think we should do about it? We have more problem with her than just that. But there's only so much we can do. Thanks for your answers.
No mean or hateful answers please.
To begin with, I don't have leather shoes or a handbag. Were poor. And you know what, I hate that crap about stores were around forever what do you think they did. That's the freaking point we have them NOW. There's no reason to kill something just because you like the taste or you want to hang it's freaking head on the wall. I don't think kids should hunt. And she's only doing it because everyone else is. She's not doing it because she wants to. She's an easy child to push around. If they make fun of her she will do whatever they want.
Not violent...so shoting it in the head or the heart, or being a crappy shot and missing and having to wait for it to die, Or hanging it upside down by the back feet, slitting it's throat, and spitting it open from neck to backend, letting the entrails spill out is not VIOLENT! for a freaking 7 year old..what the hell is wrong with you people....not picking anyone out, just hunters in general. I just don't understand. Was Columbine not enough for you people to stop teaching your kids to kill things?
I have been married to her Dad for 4 years now. I have been a significant part of her life for 4 years. We see them every other weekend and for the last 3 years, we have been pursuing custody. She and I had a very close relationship and she trusted me completely. I was there when her mom let her down, broke her heart over and over again. I have been the 1 person fighting for her and her sister all this time.
Over the last 6 months, she has gotten progressively more and more disrespectful. She is lying. She mocks me. She spit on me accidentally and did not apologize, thought it was funny.
I have welcomed those girls into our home and told them this is their home too, that our family is incomplete without them. We have relocated 2 times to be near them. Our whole lives have been about these girls and I am absolutely at my wit's end with them. They know my expectations as far as respect for others and their property. Self respect and hygiene. Still they have developed no positive habits. They don't flush. They wipe their hands on their clothes, they eat with their mouths open, burp loudly and pass gas loudly at the dinner table....just horrible stuff.
I am 29 yrs old and together my husband and I have 5. 4 girls and a boy. My kids have been raised to be respectful, not talk back, ask permission, yes mam, no mam, please thank you. They aren't perfect, but they are being parented. Whay is it okay to allow this child to come into my home and get away with things I would not allow my own children to do?
She spit on me accidentally the other day and laughed about it. She rolls her eyes when she gets in trouble and i leave the room. She handed me my cell phone the other day (which she had no permission to have in the 1st place) and said "here, i deleted all the crap out of your phone. What she deleted was all the pictures of my 10 yr old daughter whom she is hateful to. I cannot let this continue to disrupt my home. Should I give her an ultimatum. She needs an incredibly humbling experience to open her eyes to the blessings she has in my husband and I. The sense of entitlement is like nothing I have ever seen.
Okay, all these sound really great and exactly what i was already thinking. The biggest challenge that I face, is not being afraid to punish, but not having the time. She's only here a day or 2 at a time, so grounding her doesn't stick.
She and my 10 yr old have always shared a room and this morning i moved all of her stuff out. She doesn't deserve to have the things that Summer does.
I have laid down some strict rules and her Daddy is gonna back me one way or the other....She will respect me for it in the end.
she has always seen me as this young girl her Dad married and I've always been able to be a friend to her, but I established a very distinct line between being a friend and being a parent. She knows how to cross it. And she does.
But regardless of custody, my husband, her mother or my in-laws, she WILL NOT come into my home and treat my kids badly. If she wants to be this way, she can stay at home.....
My 6 year old daughter told me the other day that she is going to Florida with her step dads mom in a couple months. We live in New Hampshire and I'm not comfortable at all with her going so far away for a week without either of her parents with her. I don't even know the person she'd be going with. Her mom hasn't even asked me if it was ok. I have joint-legal custody but she has full physical custody. I'm going to question her about it in a couple days and I need to know if I can simply say "no" to the whole thing. Thanks for the help!
I have 2 step daughters ages 7 and 9 (almost 10). Recently their father had to give them a hygiene talk because they went 5 days without a shower . They live with their mother full time and he gets them every other weekend and once during the week. He tries to tell his ex about the situation and she plays dumb. The girls are never showered when they come to stay and they can never remember the last time they took a shower. They are getting older now and their bodies are starting to change. I dont know what we can do to get them to realize that they need to shower atleast every other day if not every day.They dont even understand the importance of changeing their socks and underwear every day! This last time we had them they were wearing the same socks for 6 days and they were stinking up our house. We didn't realize that they were the same socks because they have identical socks at our house. We just figured they had stinky shoes and set them outside to get some air. What age do you think girls should know how to take care of their bodies and their own hygiene? I know that when i was 5 i would make my own bath and make sure i was clean and by the time i was their age i was showering every day without anyone telling me to ! I dont want them to be the stinky girls in their school. Dont you think they should know this stuff by now? Does anyone have any suggestions?
I have already taken them to pick out soap and shampoo and smell good stuff and they use it when they come to our house. I have gotten them stuff to take home (little girly gift baskets). My husband and i have talked with them about how they need to take care of their bodies but it is like they cant grasp the importance of it all. Please help!
Chris and Karen are married and own a threebedroom
home in a large Midwestern city. Their son,
Christian, attends college away from home and lives
in a fraternity house. Their daughter, Kelly, is a senior
in high school. Chris is an accountant who works
for a local accounting firm. Karen is a marketing
analyst and is often away from home several days at
a time. Kelly earns extra cash by babysitting on a regular
basis.
The familya��s home contains household furniture,
personal property, a computer that Chris uses to prepare
business tax returns on weekends, and a laptop
computer that Karen uses while traveling. The Swifts
also own three cars. Christian drives a 1998 Ford;
Chris drives a 2005 Pontiac for both business and
personal use; and Karen drives a 2007 Toyota and a
rental car when she is traveling. Although the Swifts
have owned their home for several years, they are
considering moving because of the recent increase in
violent crime in their neighborhood.
a. Describe briefly the steps in the personal risk management
process.
b. Identify the major pure risks or pure loss exposures
to which Chris and Karen are exposed with
respect to each of the following:
(1) Personal loss exposures
(2) Property loss exposures
(3) Liability loss exposures
c. With respect to each of the loss exposures mentioned
above, identify an appropriate personal risk
management technique that could be used to treat
the exposure.
well when my brothers father found out that mum was pregnant with my brother, he took off because someone else told him before she couldna��t even get a chance to tell him herself and than after 10 years he comes back into my mums life wanting to get to know my brother and me as well but I am not his daughter, but the thing is he had 4 other kids to another chick but now he has 3 kids because one of them recently passed away and he is living with them but anyway he comes to see us every now and again whenever he can or when he can make up something to his other kids mother that he is working even though she has met my brother because my brothers father took him for a week so he could meet and get to know his step brothers and sister and I thought that after she met him she would let him spend some time with his other child (meaning my brother) but he still has to lie to her every time he comes to see us but after he goes back to them he doesna��t ring or pick up his phone until the next time he can make up something to his family he just so he can come visit us.When he tracked us down I think the mother of his other kids would have disapproved of him coming to find us if he would have told her that he wanted to find us because like I said he always has to make up some excuses to come to us and when we ring him and when he does answer the phone he has to pretend that we are one of his friends and now that he cant come up all the time my mum and my brother are not happy with him because he spends more time with his other kids more than he does with us and I think the mother of his kids has got something to do with it and also this other chick that mum used to be friends with she used to always say to us that my brothera��s father doesna��t care about us and I think they believe her because he isna��t here all the time and once upon a time I used to believe her but I think if he didna��t care why did he come back to want to meet us and have a relationship with my brother even though he isna��t here all the time but when he does come here ?. How can I tell my brothera��s father that ita��s the mother of his kids stopping him from seeing us? I cana��t stand my brother and his father not talking and my mum also not being happy with him because my brother is not happy with him because he isna��t here all the time
I hope this makes sense
Hey. I had a baby girl about two months ago, her name is Bella. I love her so much. I really do. She is really colicky and fussy alot, and she like literally never sleeps. Its been so hard on me lately. My husbands deployed over seas right now, so I live all alone. My mother in law, and mom take the baby some nights to give me a break which is nice. but I feel like such a horrible mother for feeling this way. I keep thinking of how my life was before I had her. I liked my carefree life I guess, just doing what ever I wanted when I wanted, now I have my daughter to take care of. I know that Im a mother now and I have to step up to the plate, and handle the responsiblity. but Im really having a hard time adjusting. will this get easier, will there be a point, where I forget about the way things used to be, and I just start being happy with my new life as mother?I want to be a great mother. Im also struggling with depression really bad. thanks for any advice.
no, i didn't name my daughter after twilight. lol I just really like the name. Its very beautiful.
Ok so today I had set Mollie and Kara (CARE-uh) (our twins) down on this little rug in our house and my step daughter came up and said "Mommy Baby Hungry"? and before I could answer she came running with their bottles and gave them to me. I said Thanks Sammy and she asked me if she could help change the baby's diaper. So the rest of the day when diapers would need to be thrown away I would say "Diaper Genie" and Samantha would come running
Have your kids ever done any thing to help with there younger siblings? I thought it was so cute
My step-sister has 3 kids, and she had all of them years before I even met my husband. My husband and I dated for 3 years and we've been married for 3 months, and we're just starting to play with names. Well, one of the names that we came up with happens to be the name of my step-sister's second child. We really like the name, but I'm afraid it will be awkward with the family.
Important fact: I have never really gotten along that well with my dad and my stepmom, and we had the ultimate showdown about a year and a half before my wedding (a few weeks after we announced our engagement), and in the end, my father, my stepmother, and her family didn't come to my wedding. So, in the end, we're probably never going to see any of them again.
Never seeing them again is a big argument under our "why to" category. But the situation in itself (having a niece or nephew who already has that name) just seems like the ultimate "why not to" reason.
If we were still getting along with my dad and his wife, I wouldn't even have given the name a second thought. But does the idea of never seeing them again make it okay? We still see my grandparents and aunts from my dad's side all the time, and they see him now and then, and even though they're not close with my step-sister, they still know her name. Would they think it's weird?
Okay, okay...you guys pressured me into it. The name is Rachel. It goes really well with our funky last name. (Now THAT I won't give away, lol!)
True story, I was happy. My girlfriend and I had been dating for over a year, and so we decided to get married. My parents helped us in every way, my friends encouraged me, and my girlfriend? She was a dream! There was only one thing bothering me, very much indeed, and that one thing was her younger sister. My prospective sister-in-law was twenty years of age, wore tight mini skirts and low cut blouses. She would regularly bend down when near me and I got many pleasant views of her underwear. It had to be deliberate. She never did it when she was near anyone else. One day little sister called and asked me to come over to check the wedding invitations. She was alone when I arrived. She whispered to me that soon I was to be married, and she had feelings and desires for me that she couldn't overcome and didn't really want to overcome. She told me that she wanted to make love to me just once before I got married and committed my life to her sister. I was in total shock and couldn't say a word. She said, "I'm going upstairs to my bedroom, and if you want to go ahead with it just come up and get me." I was stunned. I was frozen in shock as I watched her go up the stairs. When she reached the top she pulled down her panties and threw them down the stairs at me. I stood there for a moment, then turned and went straight to the front door.
I opened the door and stepped out of the house. I walked straight towards my car. My future father-in-law was standing outside. With tears in his eyes he hugged me and said, "We are very happy that you have passed our little test. We couldn't ask for a better man for our daughter. Welcome to the family."
The moral of this story is: Always keep your condoms in your car.
Im going to just b honest about everything now me and my husband have been married for 3 years now been together for 5 years i was living back home in the caribbean we are both from there, we got married and he filed for me to come here everything was ok with me and my husband until he brought me here he started treating me different leave me in the house i av to cook and clean up after him and his mother brother cousin and step father we were living at his mom, i did not like it so i started to tell him anyway he started to tell me that i'm miserable and i must just do it i got myself a little job and i was trying to convince him to let us move and get our own apartment as soon as his mom find out she start cursing me out telling him know what he is getting himself into want to move on his own its hard out there come on i'm 29 he is 34 years old we are married. anyway he started to come home from work late in the evening he would tel me that he is going to his car insurance or other places i did not take it for anything because i wasn't living here for long so i did not know his schedule anyway our relationship was not going so good one saturday morning i was using his phone to text my mom back home to telling her to call me back. i did not have a phone for myself next thing i know is i saw messages that he was sending and receiving from a female saying stuff like baby meet me on 125 street before he reach on 125st, baby i can imagine u up on that table last week, what u want me to do to you the next time i see u baby and she was like i want you to sex me in my mouth my ass the same things that u did the last time i did enjoy it baby. i was so traumatize we were just argueing day and night and his mom was happy laughing saying stuff like im overexagerating so i fell like i was going crazy i left and went to stay with my mom friend i was there for two months her son was living there he was single and he started telling me that he love he started treating me different so we started having sex when his mom wasnt there because we did not want her to know cause i respect her cause she was my mom friend. anyway after the two months my husband was begging me please come back he miss me he love me he cant do without me so i fell for it went back cause i really really love him too then i found out that i am pregnant like three weeks after, i had no clue that it was not for my husband because the other guy never discharge inside me when i was like 7months pregnant i found out that my husband was cheating with another girl i confronted him about it. he told me that he cant go on like this anymore because i couldnt have sex i would feel a lot of pain, he started coming home when he feel like, when he does he would not talk to me i got real sick high blood presure and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks he did not even know that i was addmited he did not call or anything i called his cousin cause we were close she told him he told me i should call him he did not come to look for me neither his mom so i told my doctors that i cant go back in the stress so they put me in a prenatal shelter he did not know where i was almost two months later when i was ready to deliver because he knew my due date he called me begging me to b there for the birth at first i say no then i decided to have him be there after i have the baby he beg me to come home saying he did not want his family to be in any shelter so i went back home again thinking that everything would be ok we went through counceling he told me infront of the councilor that he ended the relationship with the woman.. then she she started calling our house phone treathening me so i told him he av to let her stop calling she wouldn't stop calling so we would argue one night he was cursing me out telling me to go back to my shelter so i took up my baby and i was walking away and he started punching me in my head beating me up so i call the cops and ther arrested him now we r not to gether anymore i my daughter is 3months now she started looking like the other guy so we did a dna and she turned out to b happy he is happy .. but my husband still dont know she's not his child now i am wondering if i should just drop the case and move i wanna do that but i dont know how to tell him.. i kno he is not gonna get back with me because i got him arrested.. he cant c her or me because there is an order of protection whats ur best advise please it's really stressing me..?????????????????????????????
Our church doesn't allow dancing. We're having the reception there, but the ceremony is outdoors by a pond about a half mile away. The ceremony begins at 11 a.m. The first dances, mainly the couple's first dance and the father-daughter dance are extremely important to me, but we cannot change our reception location at this point; the wedding is six weeks away.
I was thinking of doing the dances immediately after the ceremony, while we're still outside...I want it to look like we're doing something "different" instead of having to explain "Um, our church is a big stick-in-the-mud, please watch us dance out here." I don't know how to incorporate this with the recessional, etc. There is a large oak tree about a hundred feet back from the exact spot we're getting married...I thought about stepping under that, having them change the music, and possibly have the pastor (or someone else?) announce the dance, and then have my father cut in afterward. Then we could have everyone meet @ the reception area. Will this be horribly tacky? Could we pull it off? Any other ideas?
Thanks!
Karen- this is the church we belong to. We were hoping they would make an exception for us. We wanted to incorporate our home church, but I wanted the ceremony outdoors..
And also, its the church rules, not the pastor's. He was actually the one to suggest the dancing at the ceremony and not the reception. :)
We were watching tv on the couch and she was trying to get her juice cup off the table so she walked across my belly, and since im so earlier in the pregnancy (12 weeks) i am worried that it could hurt the baby.
My mom n step dad just got divorced and my ex step fathers daughter kind of asked me to date her we always did things with each other but I never thaught of this I mean she's great but is it right or no.?
i have a three year old daughter, very well toilet trained, but we have taken a few steps back and had an accident last night... just after some help to clean her mattress properly so there is no bacteria, smell and minimal wetness (ideally she could sleep in it tonight?)
And yes, well aware that you can get mattress protectors - after 2 wets last night, it and the bed are now soaked
As a background, in '05, I was raped, and in turn wound up with a little brew in the pot. I came back home and started college while pregnant. At birth, I asked my mom to adopt her, but that's never gotten off the ground, so my mom just took care of her while I was in school. But over the years, my mum has done more and more to prove that when I transfer to my university, she *really* isn't the best idea as far as guardian, so my sister is going to care for my daughter.
Now, social services has come into the picture, and we all had this big "everyone involved" meeting yesterday. I mentioned then that I know my mom has a lot on her plate, so when I leave, my sister will take on a lot of what's needed, as "respite" for my mom. The action plan made is for me to "look into" co-gaurdianship. Under their assumptions, this co-guardianship is between my mother and my sister. Well I "looked into it" alright and decided it's not happening.
Last night, my older sister's best friend (who has always been like a sister to me) messaged me and said if I'd be open to the idea, she'd take my daughter too. I'm very much open to that idea as well. So I'm thinking of doing a co-guardianship between my sister and my older sister's best friend. Not like "they have to work together and agree with each other on all decisions" like in most cases, but like...if something happens that my sister can't or won't care for my daughter anymore, my older sister's best friend can step in and assume care without having to hassle a whole separate legal tangle (and without any chance of my mother being able to step in). BUT...I, my daughter, and my sister, are all in California. My sister's best friend is in Arizona. They are neighbouring states, but they're still two separate states.
So, my questions are:
Is there any legal headache my mother could cause for saying it would be her during the meeting and not actually going through with it?
(Most importantly), Can the two guardians in a co-guardianship of a child live in different (but neighbouring) states?
How do I go about doing this?
Thanks. =)
And please, whatever you say, skip the "she's your daughter, step up to the plate and quit being a deadbeat mom."
I am *NOT* "dumping her off on family." My sister and my older sister's best friend both ASKED me if they could take care of her, and her being raised by family has ALWAYS been the plan. It's exactly the same as adoption within the family, except not done at birth and not as "go away mommy you're not welcome here anymore" as in the usual instance. I *DO* love my daughter more than any love I've ever felt, and I *DON'T* consider her a "rape baby", just a left-handed blessing that was given to me at a time when I'm not ready to accept it. Moving away without her is is already a glued down decision.
I'm in a bit of a pickle here about guardianship of my daughter. As a background, in '05, I was raped, and in turn wound up with a little brew in the pot. I came back home, thinking it was the best place, and started college while pregnant. When I had my daughter, I asked my mom to adopt her, but that's never (as far as legal paperwork) gotten off the ground, so my mom just took care of her while I was in school. Over the years though, my mother has done more and more to prove that when I transfer to my university, she *really* isn't the best idea as far as guardian, so my sister is going to care for her.
Now, social services has come into the picture, called on my mom, but since I'm an adult parent living in her house, the referral was required to include me too. So we all had this big "everyone involved" meeting yesterday, at which time I mentioned that I know my mom has a lot on her plate, so when I leave, my sister will take on a lot of what's needed, as "respite" for my mom. It wasn't a lie, it's just a one sided bloating of the truth. So the action plan is for me to "look into" co-gaurdianship. Under their assumptions, this co-guardianship is between my mother and my sister. Well I "looked into it" alright and decided it's not happening.
But then, my older sister's best friend (who has always been like a sister to me) messaged me last night and said if I'd be open to the idea, she'd take my daughter too. I'm very much open to that idea, as she's a parent of a children who've been my daughter's age recently, so she knows about it. (I love and trust my sister 1000%, but she's only got the one daughter, who's 10 months, so it kind of makes me wonder.) So I was thinking of doing a co-guardianship between my sister and my older sister's best friend. Not like "they have to work together and agree with each other on all decisions" like in most cases, but like...if something happens that my sister can't or won't care for my daughter anymore, my older sister's best friend can step in and assume care without having to hassle a whole separate legal tangle. The only snag with this is, I, my daughter, and my sister, are all in California. My sister's best friend is in Arizona. They are neighbouring states, but they're still two separate states.
So, my questions are:
Is there any legal headache my mother could cause for saying it would be her during the meeting and not actually going through with it?
(Most importantly), Can the two guardians in a co-guardianship of a child live in different (but neighbouring) states?
How do I go about doing this?
Thanks. =)
And please, whatever you say, skip the "she's your daughter, step up to the plate and quit being a deadbeat mom."
I am *NOT* "dumping her off on family." My sister and my older sister's best friend both ASKED me if they could take care of her, and her being raised by family has ALWAYS been the plan. It's exactly the same as adoption within the family, except not done at birth and not as "go away mommy you're not welcome here anymore" as in the usual instance. I *DO* love my daughter more than any love I've ever felt, and I *DON'T* consider her a "rape baby", just a left-handed blessing that was given to me at a time when I'm not ready to accept it.
The story is when my grandfather my dad he was married to his 1st wife and after he marred his 2nd wife he had a daughter so apparently she isn't my father's sister but I would believe it would constitute as father's step sister, so basically my step aunt..
It wouldn't be a direct blood line though since she has a different mother so half blood...I don't know but she is hot
Yah but its easier marrying a relative we can get along rather than having to explain it agian looooool
Alright we share half genes since she is my half aunt, how do you cousin marriages though such as fathers sisters daughter/cousin still gene related or not?
I am in a dilema, and in need of advice.
I live with my husband and 3 young children, in a lovely area but our home is 2 small, and we only have 2 bedrooms. A house has come up with much more space, but not in a fab area, although its ok.
I am so upset over leaving an area i love, and a home i love, but i do know its not big enough here. the move worried me, and the upset. my youngest daughter is only 3 months old.
I really dont know what to do, everyone is saying take the step and go for it, but its the other end of town, a new start and a new school for our eldest daughter.
I just want our family to be happy
My mom got custody because I let her. But now my step dad is being a jerk and I need to know how to get her back. Me and my husband are working on our problems.My mom wont even let my daughter come over my house because of my husband. But her husband is no better.
Ok so i've heard that its nothing to worry about if you think youre loosing our mucous plug, or pieces of it. but this is driving me nuts. im about 30 weeks along and starting a few weeks ago i noticed that SOMETIMES when i go to the bathroom to urinate there is a small piece of something floating in the toilet when im finished. its not an everyday thing but maybe once a week, or once every 2 weeks or so. i didnt give much thought to it at first but then when i kept seeing it i wandered more and more what it could be. today i had some light contractions, about 3 within an hour. they werent PAINFUL but they made me uncomforable and made me feel sick like i was going to vomit. so i laid down like my midwife told me to, and took a nap. i woke up feeling like i had to urinate so bad that i wouldnt make it to the bathroom. i did, but didnt urinate much at all. i have a habbit of looking in the toilet when i use it to check to make sure my urine isnt too dark (sign of dehydration) and seen a small piece of something. it was a whitish color with some light/med brown color on part of it. but i didnt really have any mucousy discharge when i whipped. is this my mucous plug? i havent had any more contractions but im having some lower back pain, that i wasnt having earlier.
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ill give a little history. ive had a lot of vaginal pain for probably about the last month. it hurts to stand up, it hurts if i walk more then a few bocks, it hurts if i lift my leg, like to step over something. its unreal! i didnt have this pain with my daughter 3 years ago! i brought it up to my midwife and she checked me and said everything looked fine other then i was open a little, but that could be perfectly normal depending on the person. she was unsure if it was normal for me because i didnt see her, or have a vaginal exam with her at the beginning of my pregnancy. but she assumed everything was fine because as she said, some women who have already have dont close completely.
ive never been convinced of my EDD. i truely think im further along then what shes saying but shes going by an early ultrasound and i dont really have much choice but to take her word. well at 26 weeks i had a 3d ultrasound and the tech. asked if i was sure of my EDD. she said the baby looked bigger then 26 weeks! his cheeks were very chubby, he had a double chin at times....he just looked like he was already getting fat stored up, which according to my midwife, he wouldnt have that much at that point. so at my next appt with her after i had the 3d u/s i showed her the pictures and talked to her about my concerns and she basically just laughed and said "well your 5'9 and the father is 6'3. your going to have a big baby" ok i understand he is doomed to be TALL. but what does that have to do with fat at this point? she keeps telling me shell stop my labor if he tries to come early. but what if he isnt really coming early, but coming because hes ready, because my due date is wrong?
The Love Dance
I am in the centre of a thousand clover gazes, the flourishing vein-
On a dark, star fish pressed leaf. An ivy infant in a world of moss.
I slam my heels beneath the lantern kindled roof, shuttered from the rain,
And pass my elbow to a coal stained hand, we dance in the symmetry of a ribboned cross.
Amongst so many merry hearts, we sail down the wooden path,
Fringed with curls of laughter and pairs of withered hands that birth this love song.
Clapping together beside the trill weaving of the whistle's nectar laugh,
Side stepping down the clamour of captivated lovers, twisting through the throng.
I have fallen into the lover's spectrum of emerald waters, the lily spray on opal hearts,
Cleansing us both in a fall of moon dappled lace, frayed with the spark of rose thread.
The sun pours honey down onto our sweet, young souls. Blessing us in the sky's roaring arts,
For the sky is the sea and the sea is the sky! Dance with me! Dance until dead!
With music to embrace our shamrock hearts, we will delve into the waters-
The crystal marine sheets of thickened brine, o'er parchment fingers, locked in white spray.
I am the swiftly sailing maiden, the young heart of seven sun caressed daughters,
In this jubilation of brilliance I shall honour my father, who blessed me on this day!
Joyous, joyous are we beneath the bruise of thunder on a rolling sky,
Beneath a dew paled, amber cut sunrise that grapples for us in her locket of awe.
From the wondrous flames of autumn canopy, to the rippling waters of July,
I fell swiftly into this dance of love, bounding over the oak cut floor.
look my step dad married my mom 19 years ago and he claiims to love her and love god and always trying to preach and tell people that they aignt living the life but latley hes been rubbing my leg and he told me the other day that im looking a 2 things on u i was like what and he wa like what do guys look at and i was like ur chest and their booty and he was like thats what i watching on u but he says he loves my mom should i tell her because i feel gulty that this is going on and i havent told her should i tell her and do u think he is looking at me as more than his step daughter
I recently acted as a co-signer so my step daughter could get into her first apartment. When she asked me to do it, I wasn't sure I would qualify her since I have less than stellar credit. To my surprise she got the place! My question is this, does that mean if I applied for an apartment of my own at this same complex would they approve me? I'm considering a move back to the area where she lives and thought maybe I could find an apartment at the same place. Its a pretty big complex so no worries on being on top of each other and me cramping her style, lol.
My fiance and I have ben together fa 8 years. I came into the relationship with 2 kids and he came with 2 kids as well. Now we have a 4 month old together. My kids are now 14, boy and 9, female. His kids are 11, girl and 8, boy. His kids come over every wednesday night, saturday and sunday. They all have a chore in the house to do when they are home. Problem is my step daughter doesn't feel like she should have to do any chores at all. Everyone else has a clear understanding and doesn't put up big fuss about it at all. They know there is a reward for doing them when done. How do u address her and get her to understand that this is her contribution to the household? She has been acting very very ugly about having to do chores, yelling screaming, stumping her feet, and mind u she is only 11. I would have scolded her if she was my child, but I am really trying to approach this situation differently cause her mother agrees with her as well.
Traditionally if they haven't done their chores, its no tv and no extra activities as in the form of consequences. For some reason now she said she is only here 2 nights (3days) a week, so shouldn't have to do chores. The girls share a room and the boys share a room. They are responsabile to clean up their own mess in their room. My 15 yr old elects to clean (because he a neat freak) up behind the 8 yr old, though he has no problem doing his own chores. So my 11 yr old feels that my 8 yr old should clean up her mess too.
forgot to mention her dad is at work on the visiting days when these moments occur. We normally have a wonderful relationship, these tantrums do occur every so often though. Like 2x a year. Not sure why though.
And its really been annoying me. My mother-in-law and I have never gotten along. Maybe because the first time I met her I was coming home from work to find my boyfriend and all of his friends drunk, and when I told him that I was going to leave for the night to stay with my sister, he got upset, and she threatened to have me arrested (in spite of the fact that she was the only person over 21 in a house full of drunk teenagers). So, not an in-law match made in heaven. Please explain to me why my husband, who doesn't work and stays at home with our 11 month old daughter, steps outside to call his mom every single day to let her know how his day went the second I get home from work? Why doesn't he come talk to me and tell me about his day first? I am always the last person to know about anything, and I hate feeling like he and his mom have a better relationship than ours.
and is mad at me. She told her father that she didn't do anything, but she knows daaaaaaaamn well that she provoked my pit bull. My husband wants the dog to be gone as soon as Lucy gets out of the hospital, but I absolutely refuse to get rid of my dog. I told him that he needs to give up custody of his daughter if he wants to be able to return back to he house because I will be changing the locks and locking both of them out if he can't make a decision. Now, we're in a stalemate. What should I do?
I value my husband over the dog, but I value MY dog over HIS daughter.
Instead of writing a paragraph, I will list examples of how she is as a person.
1. Drove my husbands car and ruined it (body wise and electrically) while he was in Iraq without permission (we weren't married yet)
2. Blurted out in front of everyone across the room at my sister in law's shower that he didn't get into the police academy because of PTSD
3. Is constantly ragging on my husband since he was clumsy while holding his newborn nephew and says he has a lot to learn, he isn't ready, etc...
4. This is the most recent issue, but she, along with her daughter, are accusing my best friend's 2 year old of leaving bruises on her daughter's one year old child, while they played for like half an hour this past saturday, and she pushed him supposedly, which is wrong but I don't think a 2 year old is strong enough to bruise anyone.
These are just a few examples. WE already live like 30 min away (my husband wanted to live across town from her) so the next step which isn't possible is to move out of state. I seriously lost it yesterday, crying hysterically and my husband is just "conditioned to how she is" (his words) and honestly, I don't want her or his sister visiting me at the hospital. That's supposed to be my happy time and my happy moment.
Any words of advise, I hope?
My husband abandoned me and our 2 year old daughter and we were in the process of finishing the legalization process. Last step was a petition filed and was approved (Form I-130). I believe next step would be for him to have to go to Mexico, his home country, and apply for a Visa. Is he able to complete the process without me?
I am the mother of the bride to be and divorced from the dad. My daughter is a good terms withe step mom and I get along with her. does she stand with the wedding party or what?// Also does she sit at the table with the wedding party?
trying to think of some different not so common girl names.
i like names that start with k and t.
have one daughter named tia n a step daughter alyssa
please help me thanks!
okay so heres whats going on, my husbands step mother is disrespectful to me and shes a very domineering person, she cares about her daughter and her husband and her. im talking on the phone, because i have depression and im trying to get help and i have no phone so i had to use their phone because my husband is living at his parents, and im living with my dad because i cannot stand how disrespectful that terri and wendy and sometimes marty are.
his dad marty is rarely disrespectful but he gets mad because he just wants his house back, he feels that we create bills and it is too much for him. which me and my husband were helping him paying him 100 a week, which i helped melvin pay a few times but his dad did not know that or just doesnt care that i helped, so they feel like they dont like me because of me staying there and eating there i guess. melvins dad quit buying alot of food and melvin had money to buy him food but would rarely buy me food, and then come up to me wondering why im so mad or that i dont feel like having sex with him. I havent done anything to them, but at one time i was starving because not even my husband would buy me any food.
and i was just caught in a rock and a hard place, im so easy to get along with, i dont understand why all these hate coming from terri,
i havent done anything to her,
but still she gives me dirty looks, and i dont understand it.
the other day i was on the phone, he she disrespectfully gets on the phone and is like we need to use the phone and hangs up when im in the middle of a conversation with somebody, thats embarassing,
and disrespectful when she could of just told someone or come and told me herself to get off the phone pretty soon.
and then whenever she does it, its like she does it to where, i have to get off right then. and thats not really right.
shes done it before but was meaner about it, and she even yelled at me once and cussed at me for cleaning the ferrets beds.
I can't take that, and she knows it i feel that she is trying to be snooty and yell at me because it gets to me. im trying to be nice because terri has multiple scherlosis and she has seizures and she has alot of things going on with her, so i dont want to really make it worse, but i need to confront her because she is tearing my marriage to pieces. because my husband will not stand up for me, he's afraid of terri and in a weird way i sort of am too, but i know she is wrong and she shouldnt be like that to anyone.
Only thing is i want to confront her so that it will end but im going to write her an email, my question is what is the best thing to say to her.
i dont want her to be mad at me, but she is always acting like everything is her way or no way.
and I can't deal with somebody treating me that way, because i have bipolar and one day i might go off on her and i dont want it to come to tthat but for some reason i feel that thats what she wants, i want to be the bigger person and be calm about the situation, so if you were going to write this person, what would you say?
Hi, unfortunately my dad died last week, again unfortunately i haven't spoken to him for 21 years due to sh1t stirring by my step sister who is 10 years older than me and her tosser of a husband. The evil step mother died when i was 16. She and her daughter made my childhood hell.
They made up lies about me and told everyone my then boyfriend (now husband) was a drug addict. What a laugh, i'm hard pushed to get him to take a parecetamol when he is ill.
I couldn't forgive my dad for taking his step daughters word over mine and now she is lording it up. A notice about my dads death was put in our local paper, she has put beloved dad of her and my stepbrother, father in law to that thing she married,(ss, really despise him) and grandfather to her and her brothers children. Not a mention of me and my family. I just cannot believe her hypocrysy, she had no time for him, well, unless she needed money.
Anyway it is the funeral tomorrow, apparently she isn't happy that me and my husband are attending, we are just being treat like sh1t, i get the impression she is jealous as apparently all my dad ever talked about was me.
I'm just a little apprehensive as to how she will act with me n mine. By no means am i scared of her but i know she will try to get a rise out of me.
What would you do in my position
Ty Joe, exactly what i intend to do.
Ty Sue, i did put in my own notice, i mentioned from your daughter, son in law and grandchildren and 4 kisses.
My husband and I are arguing over this . He refuses to tell her" no" to anything anymore. I told him it sends the wrong message. I told him the first thing I think of when I see women dressed like that is great another " whore " trying to get attention. And that every guy is just thinking how he'd like to " F " that. I just heard about this girl who was 15 and got gang raped at her high school homecoming. Was this the message she sent out too ? How do I deal with a Dad, who by all accounts, is letting his little girl dress like a hooker ? It especially concerns me because I have a little girl who is 9 and looks up to her. He says she is 16 and that is when his parents let him do things like this. I am trying to loosen up and be flexible with my attitude because I love him and his children very much. This is a moral issue with me and i'm having a hard time seeing this one his way.
I love my husband but his mother is a habitually lying, manipulative person.
My husbanda��s mother has done some pretty low things to me. This includes putting my son facedown on a pillow, insisting on having my baby shower at her home and doing nothing (my friend and I had to do it in 3 days), insulting me 3x when I offered her lunch at my house, and throwing the fact she paid for our wedding reception in my face as to why she could not take a vacation.
I have tried to talk to her about these issues face to face, but she talks over me and walks out of the room while I am still talking. Then calls her my husband and makes up things I did not say. My husband knows she lies.
So I sent her an email explaining how the above things hurt me, I CC'd my husband on this email. She calls him when she has any issue with me.
My husband said we all need to talk this out. So him, myself and my son (8 months old) went to her house to talk. It was HELL. She denied, a�?didna��t; remember, or flat out lied and said she did not do a�?any of those thingsa��. Then said a�?I am sorry for everything I have ever done. Ok, there, I apologized are you happy.a�� Then she grabs my arm while I am changing my son and tries to hug me. She was yelling, so was I at some point. She would not look me in the eye the entire time I was at her house trying to talk to her. My husband could not believe how she acted. She said 'i am 57 years old and I do not have to apologize for anything.' My husband told her if she did not want to take responsibility for her actions she could get out of our family.
My husband went into the hospital and since she went to visit him he seems to think all is ok and we should start planning holidays with her. I dona��t think I am able to sit through dinner with her. She acts like nothing happened and everything is just peachy (I ignore her completely because if I do start speaking to her I will be as show no respect and probably be cruel).
It hurts that my husband is all of a sudden ok with what she did to me, I dona��t know what to do. Am I supposed to be miserable every holiday because she is family?
I am not the only one who has had issues with her, her step daughter does not speak to her due to her lying and manipulative nature.
i have a 3 year old daughter from my ex-partner, we never got married he left us because he found someone new.My ex-partner is the legal registered father of my daughter in her birth certificate Now i have a fiancee and he is an Australian he wants my child to be her daughter he wants us to get married and to be with him in Australia.I want to know how can we process the adoption papers?what is the requirements and the step by step procedure?do i have to make my ex-partner sign on the adoption papers?
I'm due to give birth in just over 5 weeks time and I have a problem. My MIL!
She wants to take over! She keeps telling me she is going to be right outside the door while I'm in labor, and I've seen her with her friends 4 month old. Every time she visits she takes over. She has to change the baby, feed the baby, bath the baby etc.
She's had 6 kids already, why does she have to try and take mine???!
My Mum and Dad understand that our little girl is mine and my partners responsibility. They will take a step back and let us raise her how we want to, and help if we ask for it. But his Mother doesn't get it!
She just won't back off, she keeps telling me she will be round at my home everyday from 9.30 until 2.30 while her youngest are at school!
I can't stand being with her for 2 hours never mind everyday for 5!
My other half doesn't see anything wrong with his mum being there 24/7 though! If she was a good mum, maybe I wouldn't mind, but shes awful! :(
He was raised by his dad, as were two of his other siblings (16 y/o & 13 y/o) and they have good Hygiene and are polite and well mannered. His youngest two siblings (6&7) were raised by just his mum, they both have different fathers, neither one is allowed to see their dad, she tells them that they are dead. Their Hygiene is very very poor, and they have no respect for anything. They youngest kicked the pet rabbits teeth in and his mother did nothing!
Their house is littered with mouldy food & soiled nappies (6 y/o is still not potty trained fully), Their cat has fleas and they aren't bothering to treat it so my partner comes home covered in bites when he goes to visit. I've put my foot down and told my partner neither me or the baby will be visiting his mothers house. Problem is, she wants to visit me everyday and take over :(
I keep telling her, but she doesn't listen, what am I going to do???
My partner doesn't really want to get involved with all this, but I think I may have to get him to have a word with his Mum and tell him that I want to raise our daughter the way we want, without her interfering.
Argh! I'm dreading my little girl being here just because of my MIL! Why does the love of my life and father of my child have to have such a unclean and bossy family :(
(I have OCD which makes things even worse, I even hoovered my partners coat to make sure it didn't have fleas on last week :/)
My husband has a female co worker who calls him and text's him every day. They are both life guards, my husband being her supervisor. The issue is that this woman text's him and calls him every day according to what I caught on the phone records when I was reviewing the overages of minutes, she seems to even contact him on the day the pool is closed. She has a boyfriend but I feel like she is to involved with whats going on with my husband, some of the calls are business, but some are on a personal level, random things like is everything okay you seem bothered, can I make you a tuna sandwich, thanks dude, I didn't forget to get you that phone charger I told you I had for you, call my mechanic he can help you, ect. nothing to do with the pool. On one ocassion my husbands car broke down and I could not get to him, so she called her mother and had her give him a ride to his friends house to pick up a car he was going to let him use. After the car got fixed on one occasion he was giving her a ride home after work and he broke down again, she called her mother to pick her up and offered that he come with them and that he could use her truck that she had back at home because she couldn't drive it. I told him I was not comfortable with that and that I would pick him up and I would take him to his dad's so he could use his dad's car, my husband had another par time job at the time so we couldn't really share mine.When I showed up her mom was there to get her and pulled up next to me and said hello and asked why I was out late with my daughter, I responded "what do you think"?. She said girl he is a grown man he can figure things out on his own you need to be at home with yourchild(4yrs old).
After that his co worker called him later that evening, to see if he was okay mind you they get off at 10pm so after breaking down and rides and all is said and done she called him at 12:30am. The next day she called him to give him the number to her friend who is a mechanic so that perhaps he can help him out, mind you my husband already has a mechanic. after that I have found text messages where she is asking him if things are okay, you seem upset and so on. At some point again I expressed to my husband that I am a little bothered by her involvment in his life, it doesn't even seem like a work relationship anymore. He admitted that at some point he thought I might be right about her, because when giving her a ride one time she opened up to him about how she had been raped and molested as a child (not a conversation I would have with my supervisor or someone I have only worked with for a 3 or 4months). She offers to make him food she tries to get jobs at his other jobs (which she did, she now is a sub at the other pool he works at) she calls at odd hours and text's at odd hours. Please tell me your opinion, I do not think my husband is sleeping with her but even though she has a boyfriend I am not okay with this woman. I feel like she is trying to do my job, I like to cook for my husband why is she trying to step in, if my husband is in need of help I want to be there, unlike her mother suggested(perhaps she should offer the same advice to her daughter about how my husband is a grown man and he can do for himself). I understand they need to speak as she works with him she is sometimes running late and sometimes can't come in, but is the other stuff really necessary, and what about her boyfriend where is he in all this? Is she taking care of him? What do you think her intentions are? I really dont apreciate her doing things for my husband that I feel are for me to do. Am I wrong for feeling that way? Can he get her to back off and if so how should he aproach the situation without being rude? please advice.
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Thank you all for your support and insight. Here is a twist for your thoughts. So last week he said he would ask that she not call unless it was work related and urgent. Of course she called every day and then text him about the making him a tuna sandwich. So I took matters in my hands and called I explained my issue was not that I though they were getting in on but that she is a little too involved in my husbands personal affairs and that I don't appreciated it. Of course she gave me the speal about loving her boyfriend and blah blah. And how she felt there there was nothing wrong with what she was doing and how she is this way with everybody. She basically made me out to be the bad guy how dare I think that of her and who checks their husbands phone calls, I basically got no where with her and I just got tired of hearing her talk so I hung up. After it is all said in done it was obvious I was upset with my husband because of this. She left work a 7:30pm and then called him at 12.....
2 days ago
12am to see if he was okay. I would think that common sense would tell this woman that she has stired up enough in my husbands relationship and that he would probably be
After the late night call my husband said that he went to work and asked why she would called so late infront of the facility manager a married woman
who sided with my husband that that was too late to call and that the girl asked him to apologize to me. The next morning my husband got up to do his paper route but left his phone at home. I went outside the apartment parking lot and notice that his car was still ther according to hid route manager he made it in. This was the second time in three days that he had gotten to work without his car because it was having problems and so is mine, but he has not mentioned the ride to me. After asking him he said a guy named kevin loaned him a car. I never heard him speak of kevin? I felt this was BS i got all the phones and I left. she called him to report the pool was open and I went at it again with her she caved and admited he was using the car that she doesnt use. He aproached the car and asked who I was speaking to and I put her on speaker
and asked him about the car he was caught in the lie and asked to speak to her. I gave him the phone and he asked her why she would tell me after he asked her not too she said because she thought I should know the truth he told her she can pick her car up and gave me the phone and left. She knew all along about how he was getting to work and she kept saying that what he told me was probably true only to find out she knew all along. And he never confronted her about the late call that whole story he painted for me never happend they still swear up and down that its not what I think and that she was trying to help us out so that he could get to work and provide for his fam. How is enabling a man to lie to his wife in the best interest of hi fam. I though we were past the lies in our marraige but i guees not. He went to jail for two years comes back and this is the thanks I get. Should I stay or should I leave.
My 16 year old adoped step daughter lives with her mom and has already had a kid and is pregnant with another. She's with this low life prick with no job and doesn't do shit. She's ot planning on going back to highschool or on getting a ged NOTHING! Most teenagers are like this and expect to be treated as adults
My step daughter 3 and a half and today she asked me "Mommy can I hold Kara (Care-uh)" (she calls me mommy because her mother died)
Do you think it would be ok to let my step daughter hold her? maybe while she sits?
Hi,
My father in law died due to sudden heart attack and without any will, he was working in Central Govt(defence) and got married twice. First wife passed away
15 years back and they have two girls with them, he got married again and have another girl with them. Overall the family members left are second wife, 3
daughters. Eldest daughter is married to me, second daughter is around 25 yrs of age and the youngest one around 15 years of age. I have few questions,
appreciate if you can answer and help us at this critical stage.
Since my mother in law is a step mom, my wife and her immediate sister relations are not cordial since beginging.
1) Can my wife(eldest daughter) and second sister claim their appropriate share from Government for the funds which will be passed on after my father in law
death. Basically PF, Gratuity, Arrears etc etc
2) If they can claim then what should be our next step ?
3) What would be the appropriate portion of shares divided among 4 of them?
4) We dont kn
Wanted to add mother is law is already working as Central Govt Emp(india) and earning more than 60k PM. We are more worried about second daughter since she is not yet married and also afraid step mother may not support her/or give funds for marriage etc. Youngest one is still safe since her mother is working and well settled.
Location - India
Religion - Hindu
Hopefully whoever is reading this has at least seen the movie "Coraline". It's based on a story where the little girl "Coraline" has lousy parents & finds a secret door which leads to the same, but nicer, funner mom & dad. That's the gyst of it. So, I thought it looked like a cute movie, it was rated PG & for children, we watched it together.
Now, whenever my 4 year old does something she's not supposed to, I usually give her time out or take away some of her priveliges when she acts up. After watching that movie, she insists I'm not her Mommy & wants her other Mommy. She yells "You're not my Mommy, I want my other Mommy, NOW!" It's been at least 2 months since we've watched the movie & she continuously says it. I try to explain to her that she has no other mommy, just me! Which she doesn't, I gave birth to her you know, I'm not her step mom or anything. It's the same thing when my husband puts her in time out, or her Nana, she yells I want my other Nana, or Daddy! Especially when she does it in public, I have people staring at me like I kidnapped her!! It's so frustrating I don't know what to do, please help! I'm tired of people looking at me like I'm a criminal & I'm tired of my daughter saying I'm not her Mother. I've tried everything.
P.S. If you have toddlers, I highly suggest you do not let them watch Coraline, it looks like a cute children's movie but it's not.
Father:
I never had a father. Sure, technically I did; but never once did I feel like he was. Maybe it was the divorce before I was even one years old. I still see him in hopes that I would gain that connection with him, but I knew no such thing would happen. My step-dad was closer with me than my biological dad was, but alas, father-daughter connection that I hoped I would have someday with them; something to savor until I grew old. Oh how I longed for that day. I dreamt of the day when I would be able to feel like my dad loved me, and that I could call him a�?dada�� and mean it. Oh how I yearned for that day
I make about 80K , my wife 25K & we have four kids. One of our kids is heading to College in 2010.
I have been told we make too much $ to qualify for grants & financial aid.
Will it help if my wife & I file separate taxes? The daughter going to College is my step daughter with a different last name.
Please help!
me and my boyfriend have been together over a year and we live togther with his two kids. his daughter is 9 years old and his son is 5. his son and i have grown VERY close. at first his daughter loved me and i began to do morethings with her that her own mother never really does, everything was great(we neve say ANYTHING bad about her mother because we dont want them to hate her) out of know where she started to tell me that she hates me and that i'm not her mom! i never tried to be her mom and i have told her that. that i am only here for when she needs me. also i am the first girl that she has ever seen with her father but her mother is one of those ladies that cant keep their legs shut and introduces every guy to them :-( but we pretend everything is okay. i do what i can for these kids. why the hostility towards me??
Here are some symptoms that I have. very dizzy, I dont have a thermometer but I feel like im burning up, legs feel achy, runny nose, back kinda achy, tired , small cough.. thats it.
DETAILS... I went to Kalahari (BIG INDOOR WATER PARK) from last Saturday to Sunday.. and i went with my dad step mom and her daughter..... Well this will probly give it away but my dad tested positive for swine flu yesterday. And i spent 2 hours with him in a car and I slept in the same bed with him (I had to no other beds =< )
PLEASE HELP
I split my 6 year old son with my ex-husband and I get my son every other week. Over the summer my ex married the women he cheated on me with 3 years ago. It's a given we do not like each other. Also, over the summer they moved in together and blended their families. She has two children and my ex has partial custody of our son and his daughter from his first marriage. My husband works in the evenings, so 5 of his 7 days with my son, his new wife cares for my son while he is at work. My son says that his step-mom spanks him hard and when my son gets mad that she is spanking him that she spanks him harder. He said, mom it hurts a lot when she spanks me! He also says, she locks in him in the bathroom when he is bad. Which my ex did tell me that, yes, they use the bathroom as my son's timeout place. I don't believe she should be physically touching my son and mad that my ex is not even caring for my son on his weeks. Just from the stuff my son tells me it is like she punishes my son because I am his mother. She always tells my son, that she is nice to me and I am just so mean to her and doesn't understand why? My son says, his dad and her fight all the time and she says how much she hates me, thinks I am stupid and calls me a f*cking b*tch all the time. I feel so bad for my son. I feel sad for my son and don't know if I should be upset and say something or keep my mouth shut? I hired a lawyer to get my son more but the process is taking forever. Since my ex received my lawyer's notice of representation letter, my son has been complaining more that his step-mom spanking and her sons are calling him stupid all the time. My son has told me a lot of awful things they have said about me and how I don't really want him and love him. I am just frustrated and don't know what to do anymore? I feel lost.
I should add my ex will not communicate with me at all. She makes sure he hates me as much as she does. His new wife even went to the extent of making a false email address (pretending that the alias email address was me) and corresponded with herself. She said things that I wanted my ex husband back, which I can assure you 110% I would never him want him back. These are the things she makes up in her head and convinces herself, nothing that is based in truth or fact. She even tried to file those emails with police as harassment and send them to my boyfriend in hopes she would cause trouble. She will do anything to make sure I never have any contact with my ex-husband, even if that contact ONLY concerns my son and nothing else.
No I am not making it out more than what the facts are. Yes, the had an affair but I care more about my son than holding onto that. I have seriously tried to make peace and asked them to move on from the past. I get met with mean comments from them. And yes the lawyer knows about the spanking but unless you have solid evidence to prove it, it is hard for them just to go off what my son reports to me. The legal process of custody issues is very slow. I thought when I hired my lawyer it would be a faster process and would be a lot easier. It is not as easy as you might think. You feel stuck in the meantime of waiting.
of course i try to tell my ex about what my son says. he doesn't want to hear it. he then calls me a lair. you have to understand, he needs her to watch his son so he can work and not to have to pay for daycre. he did it to me when we were married. he worked weird hours and I was always the one with the kids. i would love to tell him and her off or keep my son from them but then i don't want to legally set myself up where they can come back at me and try to take my son from me. it is a fine line you have to walk. i want to protect my son but i am trying to do it the right way and the legal way.
Wait, before you start saying you are going to report me. I have tried to tell my ex husband. I am met with only resentment and hate. I do care for my son greatly where I hired a lawyer and would do anything for him. I am going off what my son tells me when I am not around. I take everything my son says seriously and as the truth. that is why I took legal action and have a lawyer helping me. I would never let anything happen to my son and never turn the other way. I am just frustrated with how long the legal process is taking to get my son away from these people.
I guess at the time of my divorce I wanted to be civil and hope for the best. I never thought my ex would let this happen. I certainly wouldn't have agreed to joint custody. I would keep my son from him if I didn't know he was going to call the cops and show them our parenting plan which states we have joint custody. I have acted before hiring a lawyer in trying to get my son more and it only has lead to more threats from them. I have even flat out asked my ex if I can have my son on the days he works in the evening so my son can be with a parent. my ex only cares about having to pay child support if he did that. I have told him I would sign a legal document stating I would not seek anything financially from him. I just want my son, nothing else. you have to understand i am not dealing with rational people. trying to get custody of your child is not as easy. I thought going to a lawyer and hiring them was a simple solution. you need lots of money for it to be super easy & fast.
How many of you ladies were induced upon request? My step daughter is considering asking her doctor. Should she even bother trying? She's 39 weeks and she's been in early labor for a week. Her contractions are 5 to 9 minutes apart but the hospital keeps sending her home because they are irregular. She wants to know if she asks her doctor how likely do you think it is they'll induce her. She's miserable. Thanks in advance. And please no rude comments.
I just had a baby on Oct 6th. 3 weeks before I was to leave I gave my job (in writing!) That my last day would be Oct 5th and I would be returning after 3 weeks unless I had complications during delivery. Well I walk into my job today, and am told to call the staffer tomorrow and monday to get some patients because I no longer have a position in the office!! So I freak out I was hired for an in office position, not to be a field employee because of my daughter's school schedule and a new baby and I am in nursing school I can't be in the field so basically I have NO job!!! Can I get unemployment benefits until I can find a new job? Is there anyway to take this a step further than just unemployment?
I didn't do anything wrong and am very upset! Oh and I forgot to mention I have been here a year, i'm do for a raise, and this is a pretty large company.
Thanks in advance.
Thanks for your answers so far. The position I was hired for is completely different from the one they are trying to give me now. Also I am only able to work part time and they have known this since I started. The field position is as a visiting CNA and I have not been released from my OB to begin that type of work because this consists of transferring patients. I was originally taking 3 weeks of because I know I would be able to go back to my job at a desk which was okayed but my physician.
Here's my trouble, I have a 7 year old little girl that's my step daughter. She's my husbands from a previous relationship. Anyway, her mother thinks it okay to let a 7 year old decide that she wants to kill something. Now my and my husband DO NOT believe in hunting. We have grocery stores. Anyway this is a child that still get upset about a great grandmother she met twice that has died over three years ago. She's not mentally ready for to decide something that could break her. Not to mention behind our backs her mother let her watch her dress a deer. I don't know if all of you know what that entails, but it's not pretty in the LEAST. Yet she won't let her get her ears pierced. What do we do? We have trouble fighting her all the time on things. It's like she does things just because she knows it will piss us off. My husband is ill and not working so we have no income, and we haven't been able to pay child support, but our lawyer that got her back with us said that doesn't matter, we should have a say in her life. She's his daughter too. As soon as we get our disability she will get her money, but this is to much for a 7 year old girl. She loves animals. The trouble is, the more violence she see's the worse it could be. Her father is bipolar and has multiple personality disorder. Alot of it was because he saw alot of the same when he was smaller. Of Course there was alot more than just that.What do you think we should do about it? We have more problem with her than just that. But there's only so much we can do. Thanks for your answers.
No mean or hateful answers please.
To begin with, I don't have leather shoes or a handbag. Were poor. And you know what, I hate that crap about stores were around forever what do you think they did. That's the freaking point we have them NOW. There's no reason to kill something just because you like the taste or you want to hang it's freaking head on the wall. I don't think kids should hunt. And she's only doing it because everyone else is. She's not doing it because she wants to. She's an easy child to push around. If they make fun of her she will do whatever they want.
Not violent...so shoting it in the head or the heart, or being a crappy shot and missing and having to wait for it to die, Or hanging it upside down by the back feet, slitting it's throat, and spitting it open from neck to backend, letting the entrails spill out is not VIOLENT! for a freaking 7 year old..what the hell is wrong with you people....not picking anyone out, just hunters in general. I just don't understand. Was Columbine not enough for you people to stop teaching your kids to kill things?
I have been married to her Dad for 4 years now. I have been a significant part of her life for 4 years. We see them every other weekend and for the last 3 years, we have been pursuing custody. She and I had a very close relationship and she trusted me completely. I was there when her mom let her down, broke her heart over and over again. I have been the 1 person fighting for her and her sister all this time.
Over the last 6 months, she has gotten progressively more and more disrespectful. She is lying. She mocks me. She spit on me accidentally and did not apologize, thought it was funny.
I have welcomed those girls into our home and told them this is their home too, that our family is incomplete without them. We have relocated 2 times to be near them. Our whole lives have been about these girls and I am absolutely at my wit's end with them. They know my expectations as far as respect for others and their property. Self respect and hygiene. Still they have developed no positive habits. They don't flush. They wipe their hands on their clothes, they eat with their mouths open, burp loudly and pass gas loudly at the dinner table....just horrible stuff.
I am 29 yrs old and together my husband and I have 5. 4 girls and a boy. My kids have been raised to be respectful, not talk back, ask permission, yes mam, no mam, please thank you. They aren't perfect, but they are being parented. Whay is it okay to allow this child to come into my home and get away with things I would not allow my own children to do?
She spit on me accidentally the other day and laughed about it. She rolls her eyes when she gets in trouble and i leave the room. She handed me my cell phone the other day (which she had no permission to have in the 1st place) and said "here, i deleted all the crap out of your phone. What she deleted was all the pictures of my 10 yr old daughter whom she is hateful to. I cannot let this continue to disrupt my home. Should I give her an ultimatum. She needs an incredibly humbling experience to open her eyes to the blessings she has in my husband and I. The sense of entitlement is like nothing I have ever seen.
Okay, all these sound really great and exactly what i was already thinking. The biggest challenge that I face, is not being afraid to punish, but not having the time. She's only here a day or 2 at a time, so grounding her doesn't stick.
She and my 10 yr old have always shared a room and this morning i moved all of her stuff out. She doesn't deserve to have the things that Summer does.
I have laid down some strict rules and her Daddy is gonna back me one way or the other....She will respect me for it in the end.
she has always seen me as this young girl her Dad married and I've always been able to be a friend to her, but I established a very distinct line between being a friend and being a parent. She knows how to cross it. And she does.
But regardless of custody, my husband, her mother or my in-laws, she WILL NOT come into my home and treat my kids badly. If she wants to be this way, she can stay at home.....
My 6 year old daughter told me the other day that she is going to Florida with her step dads mom in a couple months. We live in New Hampshire and I'm not comfortable at all with her going so far away for a week without either of her parents with her. I don't even know the person she'd be going with. Her mom hasn't even asked me if it was ok. I have joint-legal custody but she has full physical custody. I'm going to question her about it in a couple days and I need to know if I can simply say "no" to the whole thing. Thanks for the help!
I have 2 step daughters ages 7 and 9 (almost 10). Recently their father had to give them a hygiene talk because they went 5 days without a shower . They live with their mother full time and he gets them every other weekend and once during the week. He tries to tell his ex about the situation and she plays dumb. The girls are never showered when they come to stay and they can never remember the last time they took a shower. They are getting older now and their bodies are starting to change. I dont know what we can do to get them to realize that they need to shower atleast every other day if not every day.They dont even understand the importance of changeing their socks and underwear every day! This last time we had them they were wearing the same socks for 6 days and they were stinking up our house. We didn't realize that they were the same socks because they have identical socks at our house. We just figured they had stinky shoes and set them outside to get some air. What age do you think girls should know how to take care of their bodies and their own hygiene? I know that when i was 5 i would make my own bath and make sure i was clean and by the time i was their age i was showering every day without anyone telling me to ! I dont want them to be the stinky girls in their school. Dont you think they should know this stuff by now? Does anyone have any suggestions?
I have already taken them to pick out soap and shampoo and smell good stuff and they use it when they come to our house. I have gotten them stuff to take home (little girly gift baskets). My husband and i have talked with them about how they need to take care of their bodies but it is like they cant grasp the importance of it all. Please help!
Chris and Karen are married and own a threebedroom
home in a large Midwestern city. Their son,
Christian, attends college away from home and lives
in a fraternity house. Their daughter, Kelly, is a senior
in high school. Chris is an accountant who works
for a local accounting firm. Karen is a marketing
analyst and is often away from home several days at
a time. Kelly earns extra cash by babysitting on a regular
basis.
The familya��s home contains household furniture,
personal property, a computer that Chris uses to prepare
business tax returns on weekends, and a laptop
computer that Karen uses while traveling. The Swifts
also own three cars. Christian drives a 1998 Ford;
Chris drives a 2005 Pontiac for both business and
personal use; and Karen drives a 2007 Toyota and a
rental car when she is traveling. Although the Swifts
have owned their home for several years, they are
considering moving because of the recent increase in
violent crime in their neighborhood.
a. Describe briefly the steps in the personal risk management
process.
b. Identify the major pure risks or pure loss exposures
to which Chris and Karen are exposed with
respect to each of the following:
(1) Personal loss exposures
(2) Property loss exposures
(3) Liability loss exposures
c. With respect to each of the loss exposures mentioned
above, identify an appropriate personal risk
management technique that could be used to treat
the exposure.
well when my brothers father found out that mum was pregnant with my brother, he took off because someone else told him before she couldna��t even get a chance to tell him herself and than after 10 years he comes back into my mums life wanting to get to know my brother and me as well but I am not his daughter, but the thing is he had 4 other kids to another chick but now he has 3 kids because one of them recently passed away and he is living with them but anyway he comes to see us every now and again whenever he can or when he can make up something to his other kids mother that he is working even though she has met my brother because my brothers father took him for a week so he could meet and get to know his step brothers and sister and I thought that after she met him she would let him spend some time with his other child (meaning my brother) but he still has to lie to her every time he comes to see us but after he goes back to them he doesna��t ring or pick up his phone until the next time he can make up something to his family he just so he can come visit us.When he tracked us down I think the mother of his other kids would have disapproved of him coming to find us if he would have told her that he wanted to find us because like I said he always has to make up some excuses to come to us and when we ring him and when he does answer the phone he has to pretend that we are one of his friends and now that he cant come up all the time my mum and my brother are not happy with him because he spends more time with his other kids more than he does with us and I think the mother of his kids has got something to do with it and also this other chick that mum used to be friends with she used to always say to us that my brothera��s father doesna��t care about us and I think they believe her because he isna��t here all the time and once upon a time I used to believe her but I think if he didna��t care why did he come back to want to meet us and have a relationship with my brother even though he isna��t here all the time but when he does come here ?. How can I tell my brothera��s father that ita��s the mother of his kids stopping him from seeing us? I cana��t stand my brother and his father not talking and my mum also not being happy with him because my brother is not happy with him because he isna��t here all the time
I hope this makes sense
Hey. I had a baby girl about two months ago, her name is Bella. I love her so much. I really do. She is really colicky and fussy alot, and she like literally never sleeps. Its been so hard on me lately. My husbands deployed over seas right now, so I live all alone. My mother in law, and mom take the baby some nights to give me a break which is nice. but I feel like such a horrible mother for feeling this way. I keep thinking of how my life was before I had her. I liked my carefree life I guess, just doing what ever I wanted when I wanted, now I have my daughter to take care of. I know that Im a mother now and I have to step up to the plate, and handle the responsiblity. but Im really having a hard time adjusting. will this get easier, will there be a point, where I forget about the way things used to be, and I just start being happy with my new life as mother?I want to be a great mother. Im also struggling with depression really bad. thanks for any advice.
no, i didn't name my daughter after twilight. lol I just really like the name. Its very beautiful.
Ok so today I had set Mollie and Kara (CARE-uh) (our twins) down on this little rug in our house and my step daughter came up and said "Mommy Baby Hungry"? and before I could answer she came running with their bottles and gave them to me. I said Thanks Sammy and she asked me if she could help change the baby's diaper. So the rest of the day when diapers would need to be thrown away I would say "Diaper Genie" and Samantha would come running
Have your kids ever done any thing to help with there younger siblings? I thought it was so cute
My step-sister has 3 kids, and she had all of them years before I even met my husband. My husband and I dated for 3 years and we've been married for 3 months, and we're just starting to play with names. Well, one of the names that we came up with happens to be the name of my step-sister's second child. We really like the name, but I'm afraid it will be awkward with the family.
Important fact: I have never really gotten along that well with my dad and my stepmom, and we had the ultimate showdown about a year and a half before my wedding (a few weeks after we announced our engagement), and in the end, my father, my stepmother, and her family didn't come to my wedding. So, in the end, we're probably never going to see any of them again.
Never seeing them again is a big argument under our "why to" category. But the situation in itself (having a niece or nephew who already has that name) just seems like the ultimate "why not to" reason.
If we were still getting along with my dad and his wife, I wouldn't even have given the name a second thought. But does the idea of never seeing them again make it okay? We still see my grandparents and aunts from my dad's side all the time, and they see him now and then, and even though they're not close with my step-sister, they still know her name. Would they think it's weird?
Okay, okay...you guys pressured me into it. The name is Rachel. It goes really well with our funky last name. (Now THAT I won't give away, lol!)
True story, I was happy. My girlfriend and I had been dating for over a year, and so we decided to get married. My parents helped us in every way, my friends encouraged me, and my girlfriend? She was a dream! There was only one thing bothering me, very much indeed, and that one thing was her younger sister. My prospective sister-in-law was twenty years of age, wore tight mini skirts and low cut blouses. She would regularly bend down when near me and I got many pleasant views of her underwear. It had to be deliberate. She never did it when she was near anyone else. One day little sister called and asked me to come over to check the wedding invitations. She was alone when I arrived. She whispered to me that soon I was to be married, and she had feelings and desires for me that she couldn't overcome and didn't really want to overcome. She told me that she wanted to make love to me just once before I got married and committed my life to her sister. I was in total shock and couldn't say a word. She said, "I'm going upstairs to my bedroom, and if you want to go ahead with it just come up and get me." I was stunned. I was frozen in shock as I watched her go up the stairs. When she reached the top she pulled down her panties and threw them down the stairs at me. I stood there for a moment, then turned and went straight to the front door.
I opened the door and stepped out of the house. I walked straight towards my car. My future father-in-law was standing outside. With tears in his eyes he hugged me and said, "We are very happy that you have passed our little test. We couldn't ask for a better man for our daughter. Welcome to the family."
The moral of this story is: Always keep your condoms in your car.
Im going to just b honest about everything now me and my husband have been married for 3 years now been together for 5 years i was living back home in the caribbean we are both from there, we got married and he filed for me to come here everything was ok with me and my husband until he brought me here he started treating me different leave me in the house i av to cook and clean up after him and his mother brother cousin and step father we were living at his mom, i did not like it so i started to tell him anyway he started to tell me that i'm miserable and i must just do it i got myself a little job and i was trying to convince him to let us move and get our own apartment as soon as his mom find out she start cursing me out telling him know what he is getting himself into want to move on his own its hard out there come on i'm 29 he is 34 years old we are married. anyway he started to come home from work late in the evening he would tel me that he is going to his car insurance or other places i did not take it for anything because i wasn't living here for long so i did not know his schedule anyway our relationship was not going so good one saturday morning i was using his phone to text my mom back home to telling her to call me back. i did not have a phone for myself next thing i know is i saw messages that he was sending and receiving from a female saying stuff like baby meet me on 125 street before he reach on 125st, baby i can imagine u up on that table last week, what u want me to do to you the next time i see u baby and she was like i want you to sex me in my mouth my ass the same things that u did the last time i did enjoy it baby. i was so traumatize we were just argueing day and night and his mom was happy laughing saying stuff like im overexagerating so i fell like i was going crazy i left and went to stay with my mom friend i was there for two months her son was living there he was single and he started telling me that he love he started treating me different so we started having sex when his mom wasnt there because we did not want her to know cause i respect her cause she was my mom friend. anyway after the two months my husband was begging me please come back he miss me he love me he cant do without me so i fell for it went back cause i really really love him too then i found out that i am pregnant like three weeks after, i had no clue that it was not for my husband because the other guy never discharge inside me when i was like 7months pregnant i found out that my husband was cheating with another girl i confronted him about it. he told me that he cant go on like this anymore because i couldnt have sex i would feel a lot of pain, he started coming home when he feel like, when he does he would not talk to me i got real sick high blood presure and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks he did not even know that i was addmited he did not call or anything i called his cousin cause we were close she told him he told me i should call him he did not come to look for me neither his mom so i told my doctors that i cant go back in the stress so they put me in a prenatal shelter he did not know where i was almost two months later when i was ready to deliver because he knew my due date he called me begging me to b there for the birth at first i say no then i decided to have him be there after i have the baby he beg me to come home saying he did not want his family to be in any shelter so i went back home again thinking that everything would be ok we went through counceling he told me infront of the councilor that he ended the relationship with the woman.. then she she started calling our house phone treathening me so i told him he av to let her stop calling she wouldn't stop calling so we would argue one night he was cursing me out telling me to go back to my shelter so i took up my baby and i was walking away and he started punching me in my head beating me up so i call the cops and ther arrested him now we r not to gether anymore i my daughter is 3months now she started looking like the other guy so we did a dna and she turned out to b happy he is happy .. but my husband still dont know she's not his child now i am wondering if i should just drop the case and move i wanna do that but i dont know how to tell him.. i kno he is not gonna get back with me because i got him arrested.. he cant c her or me because there is an order of protection whats ur best advise please it's really stressing me..?????????????????????????????
Our church doesn't allow dancing. We're having the reception there, but the ceremony is outdoors by a pond about a half mile away. The ceremony begins at 11 a.m. The first dances, mainly the couple's first dance and the father-daughter dance are extremely important to me, but we cannot change our reception location at this point; the wedding is six weeks away.
I was thinking of doing the dances immediately after the ceremony, while we're still outside...I want it to look like we're doing something "different" instead of having to explain "Um, our church is a big stick-in-the-mud, please watch us dance out here." I don't know how to incorporate this with the recessional, etc. There is a large oak tree about a hundred feet back from the exact spot we're getting married...I thought about stepping under that, having them change the music, and possibly have the pastor (or someone else?) announce the dance, and then have my father cut in afterward. Then we could have everyone meet @ the reception area. Will this be horribly tacky? Could we pull it off? Any other ideas?
Thanks!
Karen- this is the church we belong to. We were hoping they would make an exception for us. We wanted to incorporate our home church, but I wanted the ceremony outdoors..
And also, its the church rules, not the pastor's. He was actually the one to suggest the dancing at the ceremony and not the reception. :)
We were watching tv on the couch and she was trying to get her juice cup off the table so she walked across my belly, and since im so earlier in the pregnancy (12 weeks) i am worried that it could hurt the baby.
My mom n step dad just got divorced and my ex step fathers daughter kind of asked me to date her we always did things with each other but I never thaught of this I mean she's great but is it right or no.?
i have a three year old daughter, very well toilet trained, but we have taken a few steps back and had an accident last night... just after some help to clean her mattress properly so there is no bacteria, smell and minimal wetness (ideally she could sleep in it tonight?)
And yes, well aware that you can get mattress protectors - after 2 wets last night, it and the bed are now soaked
As a background, in '05, I was raped, and in turn wound up with a little brew in the pot. I came back home and started college while pregnant. At birth, I asked my mom to adopt her, but that's never gotten off the ground, so my mom just took care of her while I was in school. But over the years, my mum has done more and more to prove that when I transfer to my university, she *really* isn't the best idea as far as guardian, so my sister is going to care for my daughter.
Now, social services has come into the picture, and we all had this big "everyone involved" meeting yesterday. I mentioned then that I know my mom has a lot on her plate, so when I leave, my sister will take on a lot of what's needed, as "respite" for my mom. The action plan made is for me to "look into" co-gaurdianship. Under their assumptions, this co-guardianship is between my mother and my sister. Well I "looked into it" alright and decided it's not happening.
Last night, my older sister's best friend (who has always been like a sister to me) messaged me and said if I'd be open to the idea, she'd take my daughter too. I'm very much open to that idea as well. So I'm thinking of doing a co-guardianship between my sister and my older sister's best friend. Not like "they have to work together and agree with each other on all decisions" like in most cases, but like...if something happens that my sister can't or won't care for my daughter anymore, my older sister's best friend can step in and assume care without having to hassle a whole separate legal tangle (and without any chance of my mother being able to step in). BUT...I, my daughter, and my sister, are all in California. My sister's best friend is in Arizona. They are neighbouring states, but they're still two separate states.
So, my questions are:
Is there any legal headache my mother could cause for saying it would be her during the meeting and not actually going through with it?
(Most importantly), Can the two guardians in a co-guardianship of a child live in different (but neighbouring) states?
How do I go about doing this?
Thanks. =)
And please, whatever you say, skip the "she's your daughter, step up to the plate and quit being a deadbeat mom."
I am *NOT* "dumping her off on family." My sister and my older sister's best friend both ASKED me if they could take care of her, and her being raised by family has ALWAYS been the plan. It's exactly the same as adoption within the family, except not done at birth and not as "go away mommy you're not welcome here anymore" as in the usual instance. I *DO* love my daughter more than any love I've ever felt, and I *DON'T* consider her a "rape baby", just a left-handed blessing that was given to me at a time when I'm not ready to accept it. Moving away without her is is already a glued down decision.
I'm in a bit of a pickle here about guardianship of my daughter. As a background, in '05, I was raped, and in turn wound up with a little brew in the pot. I came back home, thinking it was the best place, and started college while pregnant. When I had my daughter, I asked my mom to adopt her, but that's never (as far as legal paperwork) gotten off the ground, so my mom just took care of her while I was in school. Over the years though, my mother has done more and more to prove that when I transfer to my university, she *really* isn't the best idea as far as guardian, so my sister is going to care for her.
Now, social services has come into the picture, called on my mom, but since I'm an adult parent living in her house, the referral was required to include me too. So we all had this big "everyone involved" meeting yesterday, at which time I mentioned that I know my mom has a lot on her plate, so when I leave, my sister will take on a lot of what's needed, as "respite" for my mom. It wasn't a lie, it's just a one sided bloating of the truth. So the action plan is for me to "look into" co-gaurdianship. Under their assumptions, this co-guardianship is between my mother and my sister. Well I "looked into it" alright and decided it's not happening.
But then, my older sister's best friend (who has always been like a sister to me) messaged me last night and said if I'd be open to the idea, she'd take my daughter too. I'm very much open to that idea, as she's a parent of a children who've been my daughter's age recently, so she knows about it. (I love and trust my sister 1000%, but she's only got the one daughter, who's 10 months, so it kind of makes me wonder.) So I was thinking of doing a co-guardianship between my sister and my older sister's best friend. Not like "they have to work together and agree with each other on all decisions" like in most cases, but like...if something happens that my sister can't or won't care for my daughter anymore, my older sister's best friend can step in and assume care without having to hassle a whole separate legal tangle. The only snag with this is, I, my daughter, and my sister, are all in California. My sister's best friend is in Arizona. They are neighbouring states, but they're still two separate states.
So, my questions are:
Is there any legal headache my mother could cause for saying it would be her during the meeting and not actually going through with it?
(Most importantly), Can the two guardians in a co-guardianship of a child live in different (but neighbouring) states?
How do I go about doing this?
Thanks. =)
And please, whatever you say, skip the "she's your daughter, step up to the plate and quit being a deadbeat mom."
I am *NOT* "dumping her off on family." My sister and my older sister's best friend both ASKED me if they could take care of her, and her being raised by family has ALWAYS been the plan. It's exactly the same as adoption within the family, except not done at birth and not as "go away mommy you're not welcome here anymore" as in the usual instance. I *DO* love my daughter more than any love I've ever felt, and I *DON'T* consider her a "rape baby", just a left-handed blessing that was given to me at a time when I'm not ready to accept it.
The story is when my grandfather my dad he was married to his 1st wife and after he marred his 2nd wife he had a daughter so apparently she isn't my father's sister but I would believe it would constitute as father's step sister, so basically my step aunt..
It wouldn't be a direct blood line though since she has a different mother so half blood...I don't know but she is hot
Yah but its easier marrying a relative we can get along rather than having to explain it agian looooool
Alright we share half genes since she is my half aunt, how do you cousin marriages though such as fathers sisters daughter/cousin still gene related or not?
I am in a dilema, and in need of advice.
I live with my husband and 3 young children, in a lovely area but our home is 2 small, and we only have 2 bedrooms. A house has come up with much more space, but not in a fab area, although its ok.
I am so upset over leaving an area i love, and a home i love, but i do know its not big enough here. the move worried me, and the upset. my youngest daughter is only 3 months old.
I really dont know what to do, everyone is saying take the step and go for it, but its the other end of town, a new start and a new school for our eldest daughter.
I just want our family to be happy
My mom got custody because I let her. But now my step dad is being a jerk and I need to know how to get her back. Me and my husband are working on our problems.My mom wont even let my daughter come over my house because of my husband. But her husband is no better.
Ok so i've heard that its nothing to worry about if you think youre loosing our mucous plug, or pieces of it. but this is driving me nuts. im about 30 weeks along and starting a few weeks ago i noticed that SOMETIMES when i go to the bathroom to urinate there is a small piece of something floating in the toilet when im finished. its not an everyday thing but maybe once a week, or once every 2 weeks or so. i didnt give much thought to it at first but then when i kept seeing it i wandered more and more what it could be. today i had some light contractions, about 3 within an hour. they werent PAINFUL but they made me uncomforable and made me feel sick like i was going to vomit. so i laid down like my midwife told me to, and took a nap. i woke up feeling like i had to urinate so bad that i wouldnt make it to the bathroom. i did, but didnt urinate much at all. i have a habbit of looking in the toilet when i use it to check to make sure my urine isnt too dark (sign of dehydration) and seen a small piece of something. it was a whitish color with some light/med brown color on part of it. but i didnt really have any mucousy discharge when i whipped. is this my mucous plug? i havent had any more contractions but im having some lower back pain, that i wasnt having earlier.
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ill give a little history. ive had a lot of vaginal pain for probably about the last month. it hurts to stand up, it hurts if i walk more then a few bocks, it hurts if i lift my leg, like to step over something. its unreal! i didnt have this pain with my daughter 3 years ago! i brought it up to my midwife and she checked me and said everything looked fine other then i was open a little, but that could be perfectly normal depending on the person. she was unsure if it was normal for me because i didnt see her, or have a vaginal exam with her at the beginning of my pregnancy. but she assumed everything was fine because as she said, some women who have already have dont close completely.
ive never been convinced of my EDD. i truely think im further along then what shes saying but shes going by an early ultrasound and i dont really have much choice but to take her word. well at 26 weeks i had a 3d ultrasound and the tech. asked if i was sure of my EDD. she said the baby looked bigger then 26 weeks! his cheeks were very chubby, he had a double chin at times....he just looked like he was already getting fat stored up, which according to my midwife, he wouldnt have that much at that point. so at my next appt with her after i had the 3d u/s i showed her the pictures and talked to her about my concerns and she basically just laughed and said "well your 5'9 and the father is 6'3. your going to have a big baby" ok i understand he is doomed to be TALL. but what does that have to do with fat at this point? she keeps telling me shell stop my labor if he tries to come early. but what if he isnt really coming early, but coming because hes ready, because my due date is wrong?
The Love Dance
I am in the centre of a thousand clover gazes, the flourishing vein-
On a dark, star fish pressed leaf. An ivy infant in a world of moss.
I slam my heels beneath the lantern kindled roof, shuttered from the rain,
And pass my elbow to a coal stained hand, we dance in the symmetry of a ribboned cross.
Amongst so many merry hearts, we sail down the wooden path,
Fringed with curls of laughter and pairs of withered hands that birth this love song.
Clapping together beside the trill weaving of the whistle's nectar laugh,
Side stepping down the clamour of captivated lovers, twisting through the throng.
I have fallen into the lover's spectrum of emerald waters, the lily spray on opal hearts,
Cleansing us both in a fall of moon dappled lace, frayed with the spark of rose thread.
The sun pours honey down onto our sweet, young souls. Blessing us in the sky's roaring arts,
For the sky is the sea and the sea is the sky! Dance with me! Dance until dead!
With music to embrace our shamrock hearts, we will delve into the waters-
The crystal marine sheets of thickened brine, o'er parchment fingers, locked in white spray.
I am the swiftly sailing maiden, the young heart of seven sun caressed daughters,
In this jubilation of brilliance I shall honour my father, who blessed me on this day!
Joyous, joyous are we beneath the bruise of thunder on a rolling sky,
Beneath a dew paled, amber cut sunrise that grapples for us in her locket of awe.
From the wondrous flames of autumn canopy, to the rippling waters of July,
I fell swiftly into this dance of love, bounding over the oak cut floor.
look my step dad married my mom 19 years ago and he claiims to love her and love god and always trying to preach and tell people that they aignt living the life but latley hes been rubbing my leg and he told me the other day that im looking a 2 things on u i was like what and he wa like what do guys look at and i was like ur chest and their booty and he was like thats what i watching on u but he says he loves my mom should i tell her because i feel gulty that this is going on and i havent told her should i tell her and do u think he is looking at me as more than his step daughter
I recently acted as a co-signer so my step daughter could get into her first apartment. When she asked me to do it, I wasn't sure I would qualify her since I have less than stellar credit. To my surprise she got the place! My question is this, does that mean if I applied for an apartment of my own at this same complex would they approve me? I'm considering a move back to the area where she lives and thought maybe I could find an apartment at the same place. Its a pretty big complex so no worries on being on top of each other and me cramping her style, lol.
My fiance and I have ben together fa 8 years. I came into the relationship with 2 kids and he came with 2 kids as well. Now we have a 4 month old together. My kids are now 14, boy and 9, female. His kids are 11, girl and 8, boy. His kids come over every wednesday night, saturday and sunday. They all have a chore in the house to do when they are home. Problem is my step daughter doesn't feel like she should have to do any chores at all. Everyone else has a clear understanding and doesn't put up big fuss about it at all. They know there is a reward for doing them when done. How do u address her and get her to understand that this is her contribution to the household? She has been acting very very ugly about having to do chores, yelling screaming, stumping her feet, and mind u she is only 11. I would have scolded her if she was my child, but I am really trying to approach this situation differently cause her mother agrees with her as well.
Traditionally if they haven't done their chores, its no tv and no extra activities as in the form of consequences. For some reason now she said she is only here 2 nights (3days) a week, so shouldn't have to do chores. The girls share a room and the boys share a room. They are responsabile to clean up their own mess in their room. My 15 yr old elects to clean (because he a neat freak) up behind the 8 yr old, though he has no problem doing his own chores. So my 11 yr old feels that my 8 yr old should clean up her mess too.
forgot to mention her dad is at work on the visiting days when these moments occur. We normally have a wonderful relationship, these tantrums do occur every so often though. Like 2x a year. Not sure why though.
And its really been annoying me. My mother-in-law and I have never gotten along. Maybe because the first time I met her I was coming home from work to find my boyfriend and all of his friends drunk, and when I told him that I was going to leave for the night to stay with my sister, he got upset, and she threatened to have me arrested (in spite of the fact that she was the only person over 21 in a house full of drunk teenagers). So, not an in-law match made in heaven. Please explain to me why my husband, who doesn't work and stays at home with our 11 month old daughter, steps outside to call his mom every single day to let her know how his day went the second I get home from work? Why doesn't he come talk to me and tell me about his day first? I am always the last person to know about anything, and I hate feeling like he and his mom have a better relationship than ours.
and is mad at me. She told her father that she didn't do anything, but she knows daaaaaaaamn well that she provoked my pit bull. My husband wants the dog to be gone as soon as Lucy gets out of the hospital, but I absolutely refuse to get rid of my dog. I told him that he needs to give up custody of his daughter if he wants to be able to return back to he house because I will be changing the locks and locking both of them out if he can't make a decision. Now, we're in a stalemate. What should I do?
I value my husband over the dog, but I value MY dog over HIS daughter.
Instead of writing a paragraph, I will list examples of how she is as a person.
1. Drove my husbands car and ruined it (body wise and electrically) while he was in Iraq without permission (we weren't married yet)
2. Blurted out in front of everyone across the room at my sister in law's shower that he didn't get into the police academy because of PTSD
3. Is constantly ragging on my husband since he was clumsy while holding his newborn nephew and says he has a lot to learn, he isn't ready, etc...
4. This is the most recent issue, but she, along with her daughter, are accusing my best friend's 2 year old of leaving bruises on her daughter's one year old child, while they played for like half an hour this past saturday, and she pushed him supposedly, which is wrong but I don't think a 2 year old is strong enough to bruise anyone.
These are just a few examples. WE already live like 30 min away (my husband wanted to live across town from her) so the next step which isn't possible is to move out of state. I seriously lost it yesterday, crying hysterically and my husband is just "conditioned to how she is" (his words) and honestly, I don't want her or his sister visiting me at the hospital. That's supposed to be my happy time and my happy moment.
Any words of advise, I hope?
My husband abandoned me and our 2 year old daughter and we were in the process of finishing the legalization process. Last step was a petition filed and was approved (Form I-130). I believe next step would be for him to have to go to Mexico, his home country, and apply for a Visa. Is he able to complete the process without me?
I am the mother of the bride to be and divorced from the dad. My daughter is a good terms withe step mom and I get along with her. does she stand with the wedding party or what?// Also does she sit at the table with the wedding party?
trying to think of some different not so common girl names.
i like names that start with k and t.
have one daughter named tia n a step daughter alyssa
please help me thanks!
okay so heres whats going on, my husbands step mother is disrespectful to me and shes a very domineering person, she cares about her daughter and her husband and her. im talking on the phone, because i have depression and im trying to get help and i have no phone so i had to use their phone because my husband is living at his parents, and im living with my dad because i cannot stand how disrespectful that terri and wendy and sometimes marty are.
his dad marty is rarely disrespectful but he gets mad because he just wants his house back, he feels that we create bills and it is too much for him. which me and my husband were helping him paying him 100 a week, which i helped melvin pay a few times but his dad did not know that or just doesnt care that i helped, so they feel like they dont like me because of me staying there and eating there i guess. melvins dad quit buying alot of food and melvin had money to buy him food but would rarely buy me food, and then come up to me wondering why im so mad or that i dont feel like having sex with him. I havent done anything to them, but at one time i was starving because not even my husband would buy me any food.
and i was just caught in a rock and a hard place, im so easy to get along with, i dont understand why all these hate coming from terri,
i havent done anything to her,
but still she gives me dirty looks, and i dont understand it.
the other day i was on the phone, he she disrespectfully gets on the phone and is like we need to use the phone and hangs up when im in the middle of a conversation with somebody, thats embarassing,
and disrespectful when she could of just told someone or come and told me herself to get off the phone pretty soon.
and then whenever she does it, its like she does it to where, i have to get off right then. and thats not really right.
shes done it before but was meaner about it, and she even yelled at me once and cussed at me for cleaning the ferrets beds.
I can't take that, and she knows it i feel that she is trying to be snooty and yell at me because it gets to me. im trying to be nice because terri has multiple scherlosis and she has seizures and she has alot of things going on with her, so i dont want to really make it worse, but i need to confront her because she is tearing my marriage to pieces. because my husband will not stand up for me, he's afraid of terri and in a weird way i sort of am too, but i know she is wrong and she shouldnt be like that to anyone.
Only thing is i want to confront her so that it will end but im going to write her an email, my question is what is the best thing to say to her.
i dont want her to be mad at me, but she is always acting like everything is her way or no way.
and I can't deal with somebody treating me that way, because i have bipolar and one day i might go off on her and i dont want it to come to tthat but for some reason i feel that thats what she wants, i want to be the bigger person and be calm about the situation, so if you were going to write this person, what would you say?
Hi, unfortunately my dad died last week, again unfortunately i haven't spoken to him for 21 years due to sh1t stirring by my step sister who is 10 years older than me and her tosser of a husband. The evil step mother died when i was 16. She and her daughter made my childhood hell.
They made up lies about me and told everyone my then boyfriend (now husband) was a drug addict. What a laugh, i'm hard pushed to get him to take a parecetamol when he is ill.
I couldn't forgive my dad for taking his step daughters word over mine and now she is lording it up. A notice about my dads death was put in our local paper, she has put beloved dad of her and my stepbrother, father in law to that thing she married,(ss, really despise him) and grandfather to her and her brothers children. Not a mention of me and my family. I just cannot believe her hypocrysy, she had no time for him, well, unless she needed money.
Anyway it is the funeral tomorrow, apparently she isn't happy that me and my husband are attending, we are just being treat like sh1t, i get the impression she is jealous as apparently all my dad ever talked about was me.
I'm just a little apprehensive as to how she will act with me n mine. By no means am i scared of her but i know she will try to get a rise out of me.
What would you do in my position
Ty Joe, exactly what i intend to do.
Ty Sue, i did put in my own notice, i mentioned from your daughter, son in law and grandchildren and 4 kisses.
My husband and I are arguing over this . He refuses to tell her" no" to anything anymore. I told him it sends the wrong message. I told him the first thing I think of when I see women dressed like that is great another " whore " trying to get attention. And that every guy is just thinking how he'd like to " F " that. I just heard about this girl who was 15 and got gang raped at her high school homecoming. Was this the message she sent out too ? How do I deal with a Dad, who by all accounts, is letting his little girl dress like a hooker ? It especially concerns me because I have a little girl who is 9 and looks up to her. He says she is 16 and that is when his parents let him do things like this. I am trying to loosen up and be flexible with my attitude because I love him and his children very much. This is a moral issue with me and i'm having a hard time seeing this one his way.
I love my husband but his mother is a habitually lying, manipulative person.
My husbanda��s mother has done some pretty low things to me. This includes putting my son facedown on a pillow, insisting on having my baby shower at her home and doing nothing (my friend and I had to do it in 3 days), insulting me 3x when I offered her lunch at my house, and throwing the fact she paid for our wedding reception in my face as to why she could not take a vacation.
I have tried to talk to her about these issues face to face, but she talks over me and walks out of the room while I am still talking. Then calls her my husband and makes up things I did not say. My husband knows she lies.
So I sent her an email explaining how the above things hurt me, I CC'd my husband on this email. She calls him when she has any issue with me.
My husband said we all need to talk this out. So him, myself and my son (8 months old) went to her house to talk. It was HELL. She denied, a�?didna��t; remember, or flat out lied and said she did not do a�?any of those thingsa��. Then said a�?I am sorry for everything I have ever done. Ok, there, I apologized are you happy.a�� Then she grabs my arm while I am changing my son and tries to hug me. She was yelling, so was I at some point. She would not look me in the eye the entire time I was at her house trying to talk to her. My husband could not believe how she acted. She said 'i am 57 years old and I do not have to apologize for anything.' My husband told her if she did not want to take responsibility for her actions she could get out of our family.
My husband went into the hospital and since she went to visit him he seems to think all is ok and we should start planning holidays with her. I dona��t think I am able to sit through dinner with her. She acts like nothing happened and everything is just peachy (I ignore her completely because if I do start speaking to her I will be as show no respect and probably be cruel).
It hurts that my husband is all of a sudden ok with what she did to me, I dona��t know what to do. Am I supposed to be miserable every holiday because she is family?
I am not the only one who has had issues with her, her step daughter does not speak to her due to her lying and manipulative nature.
i have a 3 year old daughter from my ex-partner, we never got married he left us because he found someone new.My ex-partner is the legal registered father of my daughter in her birth certificate Now i have a fiancee and he is an Australian he wants my child to be her daughter he wants us to get married and to be with him in Australia.I want to know how can we process the adoption papers?what is the requirements and the step by step procedure?do i have to make my ex-partner sign on the adoption papers?
I'm due to give birth in just over 5 weeks time and I have a problem. My MIL!
She wants to take over! She keeps telling me she is going to be right outside the door while I'm in labor, and I've seen her with her friends 4 month old. Every time she visits she takes over. She has to change the baby, feed the baby, bath the baby etc.
She's had 6 kids already, why does she have to try and take mine???!
My Mum and Dad understand that our little girl is mine and my partners responsibility. They will take a step back and let us raise her how we want to, and help if we ask for it. But his Mother doesn't get it!
She just won't back off, she keeps telling me she will be round at my home everyday from 9.30 until 2.30 while her youngest are at school!
I can't stand being with her for 2 hours never mind everyday for 5!
My other half doesn't see anything wrong with his mum being there 24/7 though! If she was a good mum, maybe I wouldn't mind, but shes awful! :(
He was raised by his dad, as were two of his other siblings (16 y/o & 13 y/o) and they have good Hygiene and are polite and well mannered. His youngest two siblings (6&7) were raised by just his mum, they both have different fathers, neither one is allowed to see their dad, she tells them that they are dead. Their Hygiene is very very poor, and they have no respect for anything. They youngest kicked the pet rabbits teeth in and his mother did nothing!
Their house is littered with mouldy food & soiled nappies (6 y/o is still not potty trained fully), Their cat has fleas and they aren't bothering to treat it so my partner comes home covered in bites when he goes to visit. I've put my foot down and told my partner neither me or the baby will be visiting his mothers house. Problem is, she wants to visit me everyday and take over :(
I keep telling her, but she doesn't listen, what am I going to do???
My partner doesn't really want to get involved with all this, but I think I may have to get him to have a word with his Mum and tell him that I want to raise our daughter the way we want, without her interfering.
Argh! I'm dreading my little girl being here just because of my MIL! Why does the love of my life and father of my child have to have such a unclean and bossy family :(
(I have OCD which makes things even worse, I even hoovered my partners coat to make sure it didn't have fleas on last week :/)
My husband has a female co worker who calls him and text's him every day. They are both life guards, my husband being her supervisor. The issue is that this woman text's him and calls him every day according to what I caught on the phone records when I was reviewing the overages of minutes, she seems to even contact him on the day the pool is closed. She has a boyfriend but I feel like she is to involved with whats going on with my husband, some of the calls are business, but some are on a personal level, random things like is everything okay you seem bothered, can I make you a tuna sandwich, thanks dude, I didn't forget to get you that phone charger I told you I had for you, call my mechanic he can help you, ect. nothing to do with the pool. On one ocassion my husbands car broke down and I could not get to him, so she called her mother and had her give him a ride to his friends house to pick up a car he was going to let him use. After the car got fixed on one occasion he was giving her a ride home after work and he broke down again, she called her mother to pick her up and offered that he come with them and that he could use her truck that she had back at home because she couldn't drive it. I told him I was not comfortable with that and that I would pick him up and I would take him to his dad's so he could use his dad's car, my husband had another par time job at the time so we couldn't really share mine.When I showed up her mom was there to get her and pulled up next to me and said hello and asked why I was out late with my daughter, I responded "what do you think"?. She said girl he is a grown man he can figure things out on his own you need to be at home with yourchild(4yrs old).
After that his co worker called him later that evening, to see if he was okay mind you they get off at 10pm so after breaking down and rides and all is said and done she called him at 12:30am. The next day she called him to give him the number to her friend who is a mechanic so that perhaps he can help him out, mind you my husband already has a mechanic. after that I have found text messages where she is asking him if things are okay, you seem upset and so on. At some point again I expressed to my husband that I am a little bothered by her involvment in his life, it doesn't even seem like a work relationship anymore. He admitted that at some point he thought I might be right about her, because when giving her a ride one time she opened up to him about how she had been raped and molested as a child (not a conversation I would have with my supervisor or someone I have only worked with for a 3 or 4months). She offers to make him food she tries to get jobs at his other jobs (which she did, she now is a sub at the other pool he works at) she calls at odd hours and text's at odd hours. Please tell me your opinion, I do not think my husband is sleeping with her but even though she has a boyfriend I am not okay with this woman. I feel like she is trying to do my job, I like to cook for my husband why is she trying to step in, if my husband is in need of help I want to be there, unlike her mother suggested(perhaps she should offer the same advice to her daughter about how my husband is a grown man and he can do for himself). I understand they need to speak as she works with him she is sometimes running late and sometimes can't come in, but is the other stuff really necessary, and what about her boyfriend where is he in all this? Is she taking care of him? What do you think her intentions are? I really dont apreciate her doing things for my husband that I feel are for me to do. Am I wrong for feeling that way? Can he get her to back off and if so how should he aproach the situation without being rude? please advice.
2 days ago - 6 days left to answer.
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Thank you all for your support and insight. Here is a twist for your thoughts. So last week he said he would ask that she not call unless it was work related and urgent. Of course she called every day and then text him about the making him a tuna sandwich. So I took matters in my hands and called I explained my issue was not that I though they were getting in on but that she is a little too involved in my husbands personal affairs and that I don't appreciated it. Of course she gave me the speal about loving her boyfriend and blah blah. And how she felt there there was nothing wrong with what she was doing and how she is this way with everybody. She basically made me out to be the bad guy how dare I think that of her and who checks their husbands phone calls, I basically got no where with her and I just got tired of hearing her talk so I hung up. After it is all said in done it was obvious I was upset with my husband because of this. She left work a 7:30pm and then called him at 12.....
2 days ago
12am to see if he was okay. I would think that common sense would tell this woman that she has stired up enough in my husbands relationship and that he would probably be
After the late night call my husband said that he went to work and asked why she would called so late infront of the facility manager a married woman
who sided with my husband that that was too late to call and that the girl asked him to apologize to me. The next morning my husband got up to do his paper route but left his phone at home. I went outside the apartment parking lot and notice that his car was still ther according to hid route manager he made it in. This was the second time in three days that he had gotten to work without his car because it was having problems and so is mine, but he has not mentioned the ride to me. After asking him he said a guy named kevin loaned him a car. I never heard him speak of kevin? I felt this was BS i got all the phones and I left. she called him to report the pool was open and I went at it again with her she caved and admited he was using the car that she doesnt use. He aproached the car and asked who I was speaking to and I put her on speaker
and asked him about the car he was caught in the lie and asked to speak to her. I gave him the phone and he asked her why she would tell me after he asked her not too she said because she thought I should know the truth he told her she can pick her car up and gave me the phone and left. She knew all along about how he was getting to work and she kept saying that what he told me was probably true only to find out she knew all along. And he never confronted her about the late call that whole story he painted for me never happend they still swear up and down that its not what I think and that she was trying to help us out so that he could get to work and provide for his fam. How is enabling a man to lie to his wife in the best interest of hi fam. I though we were past the lies in our marraige but i guees not. He went to jail for two years comes back and this is the thanks I get. Should I stay or should I leave.
My 16 year old adoped step daughter lives with her mom and has already had a kid and is pregnant with another. She's with this low life prick with no job and doesn't do shit. She's ot planning on going back to highschool or on getting a ged NOTHING! Most teenagers are like this and expect to be treated as adults
My step daughter 3 and a half and today she asked me "Mommy can I hold Kara (Care-uh)" (she calls me mommy because her mother died)
Do you think it would be ok to let my step daughter hold her? maybe while she sits?
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